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HiI hate to admit it but I'm one of those that looks at looks firstHonestly....I don't know what I'm doing for sure.I just know I'm tired of being alone and hurt when I try to get together with someone and they use and abuse me.I have a fairly busy life...I run Poker Tournaments on the Island.I love playing poker whenever I get the chance.I have made a few friends through this....hobbyI get paid to do these tournaments but it is fun so I never see it as a jobI have a goal of someday making it to the world Poker Tour Championships and winningI like to play video games when I'm not running the tournaments I like to party with younger people...maybe to keep my youth...I don't know...been thinking about that lately why I do that.I like to watch tv sometimes....... channel is my favourite.I like country music and sometime watch CMT to see the videos that go with the songs.
I like soft rock and pop as well.I don't know if its laziness or just smart but I look for the shortcuts in all kinds of things  I do.There's a lot of the word "I" in this but I'm trying to let you know who I am and where I standI don't like talking about me.  Its been a long time since there was more than one sentence I was willing to write about me and what I'm like.Adair is my middle ... and I have been using it for years as a username.  The number with it just changes from year to year as I gain a year myself.I have a dry sense of humour and it is important to me that people laugh, are happy.  I love to hear people laugh so I'm always looking for ways to try to make them.  But my humour is clean humour.  I occasionally slip into something off colour but really don't like it so avoid joking in that way most of the time.
I cant think of anything else but as I do I will add it
this is all from my herat my real thoughts as to how things should be between me and the person Im

I dont liketo brag
Im a pretty good poker player
Im mechanically inclined so can fix things...if I want to
I computer savvy which is a good thing in this computer world
Im somewhat of a romantic
I try to understand women so I can have a good relationship with them if I feel it is right
I try to speak my mind
I dont believe in faking if things arent right
I say whats bothering me fix it and move on

I honestly dont know what I really am looking for in a girl I just play it by ear.  Sad but true Looks are important just just what I see but what she sees in herself Morals are important.  I dont want a woman that thinks her role in my life is to look after my every need.  Im independent and hope she is too I dont want a woman that sees my flaws and decides she can change me and make me into a better man.  I will not be doing that either I like a woman who is happy with who she is and if she sees changes she needs to make she makes them withoutthinking she needs my approval She has to be ito my likes because otherwise its not going to work because how can you do things together when they arent the same things At the same time she has to have her on likes and dislikes different than me to remain and individual  She has to wantto do her own thing and have her friends she likes to hang with that are of a different crowd than mine She has to understand we may need time apart from each other and not have a problem with it