It's most important to me to maintain a positive attitude/outlook on life."Attitude is everything" It goes beyond. Negativity has no place in a healthy relationship. Those who habitually use words like "should have", or"I can't" are not attractive to me. I believe that my greatest attribute is my ability to bound and rebound in tough situations. For instance, while growing up, I was faced with much adversity in an intense alcoholic family situation, so intense that I thought I wouldn't graduate high school. The tides changed when I went off to college,on full scholarship. I began to learn new ways of processing what was before then so much garbage. Needless to say, I refocused negative energy and channelled it into positive energy. I am now pursuing an advanced degree. This is my dream. I rebound!
I'm fortunate to overflowing to be blessed with a beautiful family. A mother who is a blessing to my soul, sisters who are crazy about their baby brother(as they sometimes put it), and a lot of uncles, aunts, cousins,and other family and friends. I am a college graduate now pursuing an advanced degree. I've been blessed to enter and win several competitions. Beyond this, I hold my family as stated above to be the greatest attribute of my life. Mom, you're the best!
My soul mate is one who is reasonable. Getting understanding and setting boundaries from the beginning is most important to me. Agreeing to disagree in un agreeable matters is paramount. To me a healthy relationship hinges on these two important foundations. Compromise is important. One has to have respect for another. These are most essential to me.
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Buddy0713
39-year-old man in Birmingham, AL
Looking for guys
18 to 100, up to 10000 miles from me
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6’2”
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Average
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Black
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Black / African-American
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Attractive
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Bachelor/4-year degree
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Creative, arts and entertainment
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$25,000
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English
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Christian - other
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Never married
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No
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No
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Never
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Do not drink
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Dating / Long-term Potential
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Men 18 to 100-year-old
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Within 10000 miles of Birmingham
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5’8” to 6’3”
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Average, Muscular, A Few Extra Pounds
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Bald, Black, Dark Brown
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Asian, Black / African, East Indian, Latin / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander
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Bachelors/4-Year Degree
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Accounting, Administrative, Support, and Clerical, Advertising, Media, Marketing and Sales, Architecture, Attorney, Banking, Insurance and Financial Services, Biotechnology, Creative, Arts and Entertainment, Customer Services, Doctor/Dentist, Education and Training, Energy and Utilities, Engineering, Executive/Business Owner, Fire, Law Enforcement, and Security, Government, Healthcare Worker, Hotel, Gaming, Leisure and Travel, Human Resources, Information Technology, Military, Aerospace and Defense, Non-Profit, Clergy and Social Services, Personal Care/Service Provider, Pharmaceuticals, Professional/Manager/Supervisor, Real Estate, Restaurant and Food Services, Retail and Wholesale, Retired, Science and Research, Sports and Recreation, Student
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$25,000
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English
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Catholic, Christian - Other, Jewish
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Never Married
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No
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No, Undecided
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Never
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Never, Rarely
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