I'm a lot of things. I am simply complex. To borrow from one of my favorite poems,I am 32 flavors and then some." I am a writer. I'm a sleepy jean, a daydream believer and a Homecoming Queen. I can be silly,yet serious. I love to laugh and to inspire it in others. I stand on my soapbox at times. I am a very compassionate and passionate person. I am a self-admitted Daddy's Girl. I can be high-maintenance, but as the L'Oreal slogan suggest: "I'm worth it." I think I have a great sense of humor.I majored in British Literature in college, so of course, I love to read. I love all things 80's.
I'm a baseball junkie. I love jazz music and pop music. Overall and in conclusion, I'm a far-out, cool and groovy chick!
My greatest accomplishment in life is being the first person in my family to attend and graduate college. I'm also proud of every single publishing opportunity presented to me. I'm proud of the relationship I've cultivated with my mother. She's my best friend and very dear to me. I'm also proud of how I relate to all of my family members. I feel accomplished when I look at my life and feel a sense of balance.
Ambition is a great thing in a future mate. I have a basic motto when it comes to dating and life in general: "meet me or exceed me." This same motto speaks to his level of intelligence as well. There is nothing worse than dating someone you can't hold a decent conversation with. I'm a sucker for the preppy, I just walked out of a Ralph Lauren Polo ad look. I like clean-cut and
conservative guys. No baggy clothes, no flashy jewelry.
What I'm looking for... good question. I'm not a believer in "love means never
having to say you're sorry." In fact, I'm not looking for love at all.. (having
said that, I welcome it. I think I'll find L-O-V-E if I'm not directly on the prowl.. it'll be kind of a happy accident, like finding money in a pocket of old jeans) More
of companionship and someone to share experiences with. Who I'm looking for? That's easier to answer. Smart, funny, outgoing, loves to talk, with a solid voting record (there will be a quiz later), loves and appreciates The Arts. Someone with direction and passion. A good healthy love of 80's music is greatly appreciated.
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Toni Morrison, Langston Hughes. Those are my top two!
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Kanye, Common, Mos Def, The Roots
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Glamour, Vogue, Elle
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I'm a 80's Baby!
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Rita Dove, Stephen Coleman
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Marvin Gaye will be the R&B singer to emulate!
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I'm a writer! Mainly short fiction and essays.
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I like my chick lit!
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I'm very interested in learning various faiths and religions
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I love the Brooklyn Museum of Art (BAM)!!!
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Concert Hall Live Music
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Flea Markets
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Best act, hands down.. Maroon 5!!!
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A vintage Chanel purse for $2!!
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Comedies
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Shopping Malls
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Dramas
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Sorry, Trouble and Monopoly!
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Musicals
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I like Hearts! I kick ass at UNO!
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Comedic Plays
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Party Games
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Cat on a Hot Tin Roof
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Faves: movies, music and lit!
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Hairspray!
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Literacy, Voter education, legislative reform
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Domestic Travel
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Boys and Girls Club
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Italy: for the food and fashion!
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I lean to the left, baby! Go Hillary!
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Hosting/Entertaining
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Latin!
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Casual Cooking
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Nightclub Dancing
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Dining In
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Are We Compatible?
We could be compatible on so many levels. Take a few compatibility tests to see how we match!
BlueGardenia
35-year-old woman in Tuscaloosa, AL
Looking for guys
30 to 35, up to 100 miles from me
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5’7”
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Average
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Black
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Black / African-American
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Average
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Bachelor/4-year degree
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Creative, arts and entertainment
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$35,000
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English
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Protestant
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Never married
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No
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Undecided
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Never
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Rarely
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential
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Men 30 to 35-year-old
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Within 100 miles of Tuscaloosa
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6’0” to 6’5”
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Any
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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Bachelors/4-Year Degree
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Administrative, Support, and Clerical, Advertising, Media, Marketing and Sales, Architecture, Attorney, Banking, Insurance and Financial Services, Creative, Arts and Entertainment, Doctor/Dentist, Education and Training, Engineering, Executive/Business Owner, Fire, Law Enforcement, and Security, Government, Military, Aerospace and Defense, Pharmaceuticals, Professional/Manager/Supervisor, Real Estate, Science and Research, Student, Other
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Doesn't Matter
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English
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Christian - Other, Protestant, Spiritual, but not Religious
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Never Married
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No
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Doesn't Matter
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Never
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Rarely, Occasionally, Moderately
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