Me huh? I am usually very outgoing and I absolutely love to laugh... I am not usually shy, I am rarely quiet, and I am not desperate...I enjoy being on the go and busy.... I have been accused of having a warped sense of humor...I don't think it is actually warped?... I just think that there is a lot more humor in everyday life than most people notice ... a lot more. I am not high-maintenance; I prefer jeans, tee-shirts and tennis shoes. I do have the manicured nails (and pedicured toes) but I am definitely not a girly-girl. I do not like to shop.... me and the mall have just never been able to work out our differences.... lol.... I got married when I was 18 and was married for 19 years - I get along well with my ex-husband.... I have two amazing kids, the youngest is 17. They require little from me these days so my time is my own. I live in jeans and I love old Chevy cars (although I drive a Toyota daily)... I don't know if I could ever be with a man that doesn't at least know his way around an old stock 350... hmmmm... I guess I might be able to live with one of those Ford people... questionable taste.. but maybe.. lol... I have an education but I have no problem with people who don't. I am just as comfortable with someone who graduated from high school as I am with someone who had the drive to obtain a doctorate degree. I can say that I honestly don't have a preference - they both have their strengths... and weaknesses... I love country music...I know that everyone doesn't...I know, I know... but I really do like it...and yes, I like to go out and two-step...I'm not very good at it, but I have a blast! Slow dancing works for me too of course:-)
I don't really know what I have "accomplished" in my life so far... but I am very proud of my two children who are becoming amazing adults .......... I guess being self-suffiecient is an accomplishment..... so as with many women my age, I have a good job, a house and a car... so I'm not looking to be "taken care of" financially...however, I am looking for someone to be there for me emotionally...you guys need to remember, we independent types are not as tough as we pretend to be sometimes...and personally, I believe life is meant to be shared and enjoyed by couples who have a past together to reminisce about...and a future to plan for and look forward to sharing.
The love of my life! Soooo ..... what would he be like? I don't know! I'll let you know when it hits me .... and oh yeah .... for the record, I believe very strongly in chemistry ...... What do I think I am looking for? ..... I think I like brawn, brains and a wicked sense of humor........ but realize that I am not always right (really! lol) .... not even about myself.... I definitely know that I like men who aren't afraid to get dirty (hmmmm)...but of course, they have to clean up nice... I'd take a welder over a lawyer any day ....big guys usually catch my eye before skinny/thin ones.... facial hair is good .... but really, it is usually a smile or the eyes or the laugh or something else that gets me .... I looking for a man who will get out and explore the world with me. I have not really been many places or done many different things and I am looking forward to getting out and having new experiences! This is a big one for me... I now have the time and believe me I have the energy.... I want to get out do things! I can be a little wild at times (in just about every aspect) and I need a man who can switch gears easily ..... especially one who knows when to be gentle and sweet....and when not to be....:-) I am looking for a man to spend my life with, one who is willing be my best friend as well as my lover. I am extremely outgoing at times but I am a one man woman all the way... I am not interested in playboys or games... if you like the single life and enjoy the dating scene... please don't waste your time, I am not going to be what you are looking for...
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