I'm an average guy with an average outlook viewed through what I hope is an odd perspective. I dig guys who see the world in ways I'd never think of, and who don't mind my occasional "huh?" I'm interested in eye contact, brain cells, heart, soul, and libido. And while I love sex, I love the cuddling and conversation afterwards even more. My life was hit hard by HIV, and while I'm negative, I've lost most of those who really mattered. What I'm seeking now are friends, not lovers, and I guess this really isn't the place for such a search. But it's worth a try.
Right after junior college I was employed by a design professional in LA--an amazing woman, and an amazing friend. Like I said before, HIV hit my life hard, and while I was spared, most of my "family" weren't. I left LA and the design profession, wandered for a while, then settled in Bakersfield, where my biological family lives. I worked for years in various boring jobs, then decided to return to what I love. My proudest accomplishment is that I work as a graphics specialist for the local CSU, producing work that's at least on a par with a "true" professional's. And I'm enrolled in a graphic design certificate program, heading for...a mention in Communication Arts, maybe?
I want guys with a sense of humor, who, like I said above, see the world in ways I'd never think of, and who don't mind my occasional "huh?" An interest in the arts would be very cool, too.
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