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Trim, good-looking, active, fun (does "modest" fit?) guy seeks similar.... I won't say that I like "long walks on the beach, cuddling by the fire, etc" because that's a silly cliche (I mean, who doesn't?). I'm a smart, warm person who loves to laugh. I'm emotionally, professionally and financially secure. I have terrific friends, love my family, traveling, good food, good wine, good conversation, the arts, music, you get my drift. What else? Cars, computers, working out, photography, working on my house, cats, dogs, ---. Physically, I go to a trainer regularly and have a fairly slim body with defined muscles and a moderate "V" shape. I'm HIV-negative. If you're familiar with the Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator, I'm an ENFP. I was in a relationship with a great guy for 20 years - that gives you some idea about me.  Wanna write me? - (Don't forget the photos!)

I've had a few personal, academic and professional accomplishments in my life, but right now I'm just pleased with the person I'm becoming.  (Boy, that sounds new-age, huh?!  But it's really true.)  I've made it to the point where I work three days a week, and can travel pretty much when I want - and now I want to enjoy what's out there.  My ambitions now are more personal than professional.

Well ... first I have to be attracted physically . . . which means the person has to have a pleasing appearance, look healthy and not be overweight. I don't care if you're not a gym nut (I'm sure not!), but it should show that you care about your body if you want me to! It would help if we were interested in some of the same things (see above!), but I'm also curious to learn about what YOUR interests are. I'm drawn to people who have opinions about things, but who are open to discussion, are reasonable, and don't have to "win." I also like people who are aware of their impact on others, are kind to people, and like to have fun. I know it sounds corny, but "niceness" is important to me.