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I'm happy just to be an average kind of guy, and thank the Lord each day for what He has given me. I'm not a church fanatic, but I do love the Lord, and I am passionate about finding the right kind of lady.I'm not rich, but I do ok; I like to be happy for what I have and not complain about what I do not have. I am, however, rich  in compassion,&nbs p;thoughtfulnes s, understanding and genuine love.I make mistakes like any one else, and even do some stupid things once in a while...I like it that way...it's real, and that is what you will always get with me. I love to listen...really...I do! I have no problem loosing an argument, it's just a matter of choosing what you value most, the argument or the lady in front of you.I'll stick my neck out a little here and say...sex is great if I am convinced that a lady loves me! But cuddling and tenderness are the things that really win my heart. I don't know how romantic I am, maybe that is each individuals opinion...but I know I love it, and I'm not afraid to let a few tears drop when I watch a love story.In all honesty I don't think that there is any thing that I can say that a less than honourable man is not capable of saying as well, but this I know...time together is the truest test of any relationship...some times you just have to take some things on faith and risk getting hurt because there are no guarantees...surely you must know this by now.I do not think that love is magic, I am convinced that it is a choice, and not a one-time choice...it is one that couples make many times for the rest of their lives together. They choose to value each other over, above, and before any thing else except for God of course. Love is a people thing, not magic. People choose to make it work, or they choose to make it damnably untenable. A friend of mine once told me: "If you keep going to the same quarry, you will keep getting the same rocks..

Why don't we practice our conversational abilities for this one...then we will have an opportunity to grow together by doing something that is mutually beneficial. Can I make one suggestion though? I think it is safe to say that you should not expect to get more out of a relationship than what you are willing to invest in it.

I have always been fairly flexible and not too demanding when I though about a lady in my life. It pains me these days to insist on some things, but I guess that is just the way things are these days.It will take more than a cute bod to win my heart, pretty ladies are a "dime a dozen." Looks help, and I'm not averse to pretty ladies, but the things in the heart can make our lives like heaven, or hell...I hope you can converse or a least try. I do not need a literary genius, I'm not perfect either, but frequent letters really help me to know you as more than just some lady. I want to know you as my best friend. If you want me to desire more than a skimpy-clad woman, it will help if you try to offer more than that...and while I am not afraid of intelligent women I have been disappointed on two counts in that arena. If you would like to know, ask me. I will say this, a relationship is not a competitive match, and I do not need a perfect person, just a genuinely open, honest and loving lady.Humility goes a very long way with me, so vanity turns me off.Clothing, money, fancy things, so-called "similar interests",...bla bla bla these have NOTHING to do with what is in the heart, neither can they be used to gauge a person's intentions whether honourable or devious.