Warm, Romantic Guy looking for Love
and Loyalty
I'm seriously into people who have a mind, body and spirit...and know how to use them. I'm well-educated, open-minded, open-hearted and have been described as having a very warm, inviting personality. I'm a person who likes to connect with others for a hike, a cup of coffee, a good glass of wine, and always for a good conversation. I'm also a deep romantic...so beware! I'm one of those guys who actually likes people -- women and men -- and knows how to listen deeply. It's partly professional training, but also integral to who I am. I tend to be on the aesthetic side...good food, good music, good wine, good beer, and most importantly, good coffee. I'm on my second career...the first one was having a PR and communications firm in the Silicon Valley. (You'll have to get to know me before I divulge the second.) If you look at my photos, you'll see two places I've lived: in Scotland and in London (grad school) and I've lived all over the U.S., but Colorado is my favorite place to call home. Part of the attraction is the sunshine, part seeing the mountains every day, part the openness of the people, and part the great fly fishing (a new passion). I need to be with someone who is nurturing, strong, and soulful. You need to have a spiritual life, but I won't put your experience of God or the divine into a box. I have two incredible sons, 9 and 14, who are a major part of my life. They are with me half-time, and I love being a dad. I lost soulmate (a 14-year-old golden retriever) last year and I have a new, crazy golden puppy. I need a partner who is willing to share their inner life and to share who they are at the core of their being. I love silly movies ("Shaun of the Dead" is right up there) and BritCom, but I also love Merchant Ivory films ("A Room with a View," "Howards End," "The Remains of the Day.")
• bright guys!
• good listeners and conversationalists
• people with a sense of humor
• swimmers
• men of substance (thoughtful, compassionate, grounded, in touch with their feelings)
• someone without a personality disorder...diagnosed or not!
• great if you've worked some things through in therapy
• men who do something in life for other people and want to leave the world a better place than it was when they arrived (think big picture!)
• fun-loving men
• sincere and loyal guys
• guys into monogamy
Sorry, but I'm not interested in long-distance relationships or chat.
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Calidus1
51-year-old man in Fort Collins, CO
Looking for guys
35 to 54, up to 50 miles from me
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6’0”
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Average
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Dark brown
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White / Caucasian
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Very attractive
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Graduate degree
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Non-profit, clergy and social services
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Unspecified
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English
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Protestant
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Divorced
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Yes, living at home sometimes
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No
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Never
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Occasionally
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Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Men 35 to 54-year-old
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Within 50 miles of Fort Collins
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5’8” to 6’9”
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Slender, Athletic, Average, Muscular
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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Bachelors/4-Year Degree
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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English
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Agnostic, Buddhist, Catholic, Christian - Other, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim, Protestant, Spiritual, but not Religious, Other
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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No
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Doesn't Matter
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Doesn't Matter
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