"the greatest thing you'll ever
learn is just to love and be loved in
return"
i am very sensitive and empathetic. i have had a lot of different experiences in my life, some bad and some good so i can relate to a lot of different people. i love children and animals and want to have both when i settle down. right now i am working at a day care with the two year old. i have been there for over a year now. i have a bird named peep. i have a great bunch of friends and i consider myself a great friend as well. i am very loyal, honest and trust worthy. i can give advice, but also be a good listener when that is what someone needs. not going to lie, i'm a crier. when i get my feelings hurt really bad, or in a really sad movie, and especially when the person i love leaves for whatever reason. but i am a strong person, i believe being able to show your feelings is a sign of strength. i want to adopt children one day from around the world and have a diverse family. i believe all people are equal and there are no exceptions to that. i don't believe in violence and i am very liberal. the two most important things for me in my life are going to be my children and my husband whom i will love with all my heart and never give up on, through good and bad times. the only things i absolutely won't tolerate in my family is abuse of any kind, and drugs and violence brought into my house. other than that i would stick by my husband through anything. i love playing tennis, and the guitar, i love to sing and write songs and music. i love swimming, especially in the ocean. i like to be held while watching scary movies and being held in general. i love snuggling and kissing and being romantic, showing the love of my life just how special they are to me.
i have played tennis since i was 8, i had to stop for 4 years when i went away to boarding school, but i have been playing again since 18 and am building up to being as good as i was. i was in choir at boarding school and got a lot of lead parts in our songs. i play guitar pretty well. i am an A/B student, i'm attending a local university right now as a full time student. i believe education is very important. i work at a day care and i worked in the infant room by myself for 9 months (i think that is a huge accomplishment). now i work with the two's and they can be tough too, although extremely worth it and rewarding. i'm going to be an elementary teacher when i get out of school. i am starting to write my own music and have written a couple songs already that i like. when in high school, which was only 2 years ago, i was on the high honor role quite a few times, and had a 4.0. i'm a quick thinker and have good reaction time. i have volunteered over the years at senior centers, crisis nurseries, animal shelters, vet's offices, soup kitchens, and homeless shelters.
my perfect soul mate would be sensitive and empathetic, they would be compassionate and would show their feelings. he would do their best to understand what i was going through and would stick with me though whatever trouble i was going through. he would play tennis and guitar and sing, so that he could play guitar and sing to me, that's romantic. he would be active and fit. not too muscular though, and he would be at least taller that 5'6, but taller, like 6 foot is better. but appearance isn't so important. he wouldn't care is i didn't have a model's body and he would reassure me that i was beautiful and he would mean it. he would love kids and animals and would be open to adopting children from different ethnicities around the world. ideally i would love a guy that speaks spanish fluently because i think it would be great for my children to be bilingual. he would be very liberal and open to different experiences and people. when we raise children i want him to be open with our kids and work with them to make rules and boundaries, not just "my house, so my rules!". i don't agree with that, it's their home too. i need a guy with an education, at least a college degree. he needs to be on his way to or have a steady career, not just a job. being rich isn't important to be, but my family needs to be stable and it takes money to raise kids and give them the best opportunities. i really want someone who would give me their whole heart, i want to be the most important thing to him and that he would do anything to make the relationship work, and i would do the same in return.
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bellavanilla
26-year-old woman in Redding, CT
Looking for guys
20 to 25, up to 10 miles from me
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5’5”
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Average
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Dark blonde
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White / Caucasian
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Attractive
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Some college
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Student
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Unspecified
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English
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Spiritual, but not religious
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Never married
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No
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Yes
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Never
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Do not drink
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Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Men 20 to 25-year-old
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Within 10 miles of Redding
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5’6” to 6’2”
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Athletic
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Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Dark Brown, Light Brown
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Black / African, Latin / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
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Associates/2-Year Degree
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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English
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Spiritual, but not Religious
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Never Married
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No
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Yes
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Never
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Never, Rarely, Moderately
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