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I have come to the conclusion that I am actually looking for a really GOOD boyfriend. Someone who has their own life, yet can spend time together when we want to. That guy to have the Friday night movie and the Saturday night "big date" with, but who is free to watch the game on Sunday with his buddies if he wants to. Someone who is there for me when needed, and I will always be there for them. If it blossoms into a marriage state of mind, so much the better.  During my teens, I always expected to find my hero to marry and live happily ever after with. In my 20's I sought out my soul mate...my Zen partner. After marriage and motherhood in my 30's, and the aftermath of divorce, I wanted to find my Mr. Right, knowing that after all these years I finally realized what I wanted in a man. Well, reality crept in, and time marched on. There are no Zen partners or Mr. Rights out there.....There are some decent, honest guys also looking for sincere, monogamous relationships. If you're out there, call me. My preference for an interracial relationship is just that...my preference. To me, age is simply a number, just not be in the Pampers or Depends demographic. Time and experience have diminished my tolerance for BS. "Arm candy" is easy to come by....but when it comes to someone who will be there for the long haul, in good times and bad, Ben Franklin was quite right in his praise of older women!

I love to grocery shop and check out stuff at Home Depot..really, I do!! Checking out a good film at the cinema or finding a really bad one on tv. Nothing better than Plan 9 From Outer Space or any Japanese monster movie from the 50's and 60's.

I'm looking for a stable, affectionate man who knows how to be a gentleman. I would love to find someone who was or still is part of the military. I have had a life long interest in all things military. If not, then a man who is all man, not a "metro-sexual"! I like calloused hands and sun formed wrinkles. Strength that was developed from hard work not 3 days a week at the gym! Dirty fingernails can be washed, shaggy hair can be trimmed and grimy clothes can be cleaned. It is what is underneath all that sweat and such that makes the man. Sean Connery is still hot past 80 because he is such a manly guy. Where are the Steve McQueens, Lee Marvins, Jack Palances and Charles Bronsons??!! They may be gone, but their persona lives on in some man somewhere, and I would love to find him!