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Recently, I came out--totally. It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life!!! For year's I've lived in fear that I'd lose family & friends--I do love them all so much! However, personal happiness must prevail. Absolutely no one "threw me to the curb," and I am quite blessed to have so many people who love me unconditionally! Most people would call me an "old soul." I've had a hard time identifying with some aspects of Gay culture as I am very much a person of commitment and have too much self-respect to allow my emotions to be trampled by random hook-ups. My friends call me "baby gay" because I've never been in a relationship! Perhaps this is a bit too forth-coming for a profile, but I fully believe complete honesty is always best! I currently teach high school American Sign Language. I love working with the kids. It's such a rewarding feeling to develop a rapport with a student and know that the knowlege & wisdom inside yourself has touched a life forever! What an amazing legacy to leave behind to future generations! I've always been a strong supporter of education as I love to learn, and believe me, I'm getting an education too!!! In addition to teaching, I sponsor three extra-curricular clubs: Student Government, ASL, & the newly-formed (by me) Gay-Straight Alliance. Similar activites made my own high school experience worthwhile, and it's my way of giving back. Actually, my interests are quite diverse & I often feel as if I don't have enough time to pursue all the things I love! Over the past year I've recognized the need for me to maintain a more-balanced life. Therefore, I'm working less, making more time for friends and family, and most importantly making time for myself. I exercise 4-5 times/week & have hired a personal trainer to help me meet my fitness goals. It's a bit of a stretch on a teacher's salary, but I don't think I'll regret the decision when it is time to go to the beach next summer!<
For years I supressed my sexuality by focusing on academics. I have a BA in Psycholgy & Communications, Master's Degree in Business Administration, and I'm certified to teach in four areas: Social Sciences, Special Education, English for Speakers of Other Languages, and obviously, American Sign Language. Eventually, I do plan to become a nationally-certified interpreter, but right now I'm trying not to over-extend myself. I was recently selected to present a workshop at a national teacher's conference on reading & writing strategies I have introduced in my ASL classroom. I do get asked to sing at school functions quite a bit. I typically do the National Anthem at the Homecoming football game as well as songs at the annual Christmas party & school beauty pagent. I guess that would be considered an "accomplishment" as it constantly stretches me as a person & keeps me out of my "comfort zone."
Honestly, I want to be with someone who can love me for me. I think it is important to be with someone who will constantly challenge me to be a better person, but also have mercy on me when I make mistakes. I need someone who will be there during the bad times as well as the good times. In essence, I need someone with whom I can share a common bond of love and commitment.
I want to fall in love with my best friend! I believe that friendship is the cornerstone of any great relationship. Physical apperance & sex are not enough to sustain a long-term relationship. With time, looks fade! It is more important for me to be with someone who I can encourage & support and vice versa.
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forevereclectic
35-year-old man in Jacksonville, FL
Looking for guys
22 to 35, up to 50 miles from me
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5’10”
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Average
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Light brown
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White / Caucasian
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Attractive
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Graduate degree
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Education and training
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$35,000
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English
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Christian - other
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Never married
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No
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Undecided
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Never
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Occasionally
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Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Men 22 to 35-year-old
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Within 50 miles of Jacksonville
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5’3” to 6’2”
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Athletic
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Auburn / Red, Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Dark Brown, Light Brown
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Latin / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
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Associates/2-Year Degree
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Any
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$35,000
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English
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Catholic, Christian - Other, Protestant
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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Doesn't Matter
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Never
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Rarely, Occasionally, Moderately
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