Sometimes depth cannot be measured
in mere fathoms
Right now, I'd just really like to find a woman with similar interests to have intelligent conversations with, share my dreams or troubles with, laugh with and just relax with. I'm just so tired of drama and I'm done playing mommy to anyone but my kids. You can be a kid at heart as long as you don't expect me to support you financially or let you play Twister with my heart. Please be single - confirm your relationship status with your ex if necessary. You don't have to be rich in monetary terms, and I certainly do not expect you to support me or my kids. I've learned determination and resourcefulness (and creative accounting skills LOL) that have never failed me as long as my heart was in the right place. I believe if you want something badly enough, you make it happen, no matter what your friends, or family, or for that matter, what the whole damn world says. A dream is simply a goal that has yet to be achieved. As much as I hate labels, I am sure you've suspected by now that I am "femme". I do wear makeup and heels, keep my hair very long, and paint my nails (yes, I have long nails, but I use them for good, not evil, so don't panic, besides if you're just reading my profile, you're still a long, long way from *there*. OK, the bottom line description of me - compliments of my ex-hubby and the woman I thought truly loved me.... I'm an emotionally needy (but materially low maintenance) foo-foo- femme that can fix a leaky toilet if necessary but would much rather fix a romantic meal or surprise my lover by handling the *assembly required* so she doesn't have to, even if I break a freshly painted nail. I require the regular use of *please and thank you* and expect *I was wrong and I'm sorry* to be in everyone's vocabulary. Respecting the feelings, opinions, and belongings of others is mandatory, but liking them is not. I prefer hand picked flowers from the yard over expensive roses, and the only rock my hand needs is the gentle rhythmic movement of the one that will
Bragging is not my forte', but I will say I've got rather good kids so I must be doing something right as a Mom.
She will be genuine and honest. She’ll be cognisant of her feelings and unafraid to share them, regardless of what they may be. She'll believe in forever and in working together. She'll be intelligent, polite, and chivalrous. She'll have a thirst for knowledge and a taste for the finer things in life, yet find nourishment in hearing a new poem I've written for her, making a positive difference in a child's life, or just sleeping in together on Sundays. She'll understand the meaning and significance of intimacy, the value of trust and the importance of touch. She'll stand up for what she believes in and stand by my side at all times. She'll be sensitive to the feelings and needs of others. She'll be able to admit her mistakes and learn from them, and be willing to forgive others. She'll have common sense, business sense, fashion sense and a sense of humour. She'll believe in dreams and in the power of hard work. She'll be generous with her time, her heart, her skills and her compliments. She'll be literate and considerate. She'll be secure in herself and in our relationship. She'll adore kids and not feel the need to compete for my love. She'll be fair and kind, supportive and encouraging, understanding and committed. She’ll appreciate simplicity and sophistication, seduction and sentiment, sincerity and sensuality. She’ll treasure long talks and late evening walks. She’ll be intuitive and attentive. She’ll gallantly gratify urgent needs, diligently linger, and delightfully tease. She’ll be serious and silly, responsible and playful, gentle and strong. She’ll be slow to anger, quick to arouse. She’ll be exciting and adventurous but not careless or reckless. It also wouldn't hurt if she liked doing dishes. LOL
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I give thanks for what I have, ask for help where i need it
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floetry
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don't read much fiction but Natalie Goldberg
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slow with lots of sax
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gay mags, family oriented mags
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like selena
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Natalie Goldberg
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any enya or enigma songs
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Audry Lorde
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phantom of the opera
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my books are my most prized possession
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all
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poetry, nonfiction, news, ad copy, biography
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india arie
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scorpio i am passionate about things but usually don't sting
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styx
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Social Work to help abused women and children
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i love all kinds of music
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everything I am a lifetime student
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any - depends where i am
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MSW and eventually Law
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contemporary poetry and classic literature
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books, therapy and the classes im taking
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mark's garage
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tax preperation, office manager skills, writing , editing
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I am very eclectic
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an old style all female deck
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a mrs. beasly doll
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I believe in karmic energy and try to be a good person
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kam swap meet
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hummels and precious moments
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bedroom set
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one could say i collect books, I have a passion for words
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i am dangerous in a book store
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Crafts
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i like all board games
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i'm very eclectic - love most music
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hearts
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yanni
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word games like scrabble
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rascal flatts
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literature
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oh hell i don't know
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charades
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many
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i love anything to do with reading, writing, or music
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ozzy
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ImAlwaysALady
41-year-old woman in Wahiawa, HI
Looking for girls
35 to 50, up to 100 miles from me
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5’1”
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A few extra pounds
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Light brown
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Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Not specified
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Not specified
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Associate/2-year degree
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Executive/business owner
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Unspecified
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English
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Spiritual, but not religious
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Not specified
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Yes, living at home
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Not specified
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Daily
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Occasionally
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Dating / Long-term Potential
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Women 35 to 50-year-old
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Within 100 miles of Wahiawa
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5’2” to 5’11”
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Any
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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Some College
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Any
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$25,000
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English
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Any
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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Doesn't Matter
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