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I think to offer a sweeping panoramic vista of my life...or just a moment seized in time, a slice of the life, the lives, the reinvention of self, evolution of the psyche. the renegade rebel malcontent on the slow track to parenthood, career clusters igniting, blossoming, fade , fits and spurts. I've worked hard, am not ambitious, prefer to play or laze. Sensuality is a fixation, vexation. Sand scrunching underfoot, blackberries bursting on my tongue. I am monogamous, I worship the Sun and the Sea. That's a duality. I revel in contradictions. Pondering is my favourite of pastimes. I'd like to bring Truth and Beauty to the party, or at least would like to believe I'll recognise those two when I see um.

I raised three kids, and for all but 4 years was a single parent. My oldest just graduated from medical school, the middle is working on a doctorate, and the youngest is my Wild Thing, and may need to do some more research before she decides when to begin her life. I made my children cook for the homeless shelter 4 times a year. I sailed in French Polynesia on a 32 foot Wet Snail, and conceived a child on the Trans-Continental railroad in Australia. I avoided detention in Peru for drug trafickking, but saw my friends get ground down in that system. I have been a producer on a live comedy show on public television,  and I've worked on a Master's in Fine Arts in creative writing, and had the odd poem published. I've written a very lame screen play. [OK. So who hasn't?] I did relief work after 9/11 in Washington, DC, and New York City. I've had an on-and-off relationship with a rock- and-roll guy for years without possessiveness or cruelty.  Politics have always been important in my life. My views have evolved, but I am still left of Jon Stewart and Bill Mahr. 

I believe in the Tao of relationships, that the path of self-realization can be accomplished over a truly arduous journey into Truth in juxtaposition with the Other. Any idiot can achieve the sublime living alone in a cave . The real self emerges as we try to reconnoitre the map of another's psyche. I look for someone who likes to ponder as well, is capable of introspection, but not egotistical or self-important. Who feels and thinks, maybe not at the same time exactly, but with the capacity to do both. I don't wanna merge with someone else, and I avoid overly possessive people who cannot entertain themselves.