Experiences in our past often define who we are today. Unless we seek to break the chains of those experiences and strive to grow, in order to be better than who we were last year. I am a person who seeks to grow, pressing forward in this life...wanting to live...to experience...to be happy, and to share that happiness with someone else.
I'm a quiet person, but I love to have a good time and laugh as well. I seem to have a dry since of humour and I am my own favourite comedian. (Which simply means I crack myself up sometimes.) I have spent many years helping others that were in need, and just recently began to do things for myself. I feel that it is time for me to enjoy life a little, and I would like someone special to do that with. I am not the type that likes to go out with "the group", instead I would prefer to spend my time with just one person. I can socialise and do enjoy it, but if I am given the choice then I'd rather not. Or at least have the option to leave when I'm done.
I love the outdoors... fishing, hiking, and just exploring and learning from what I observe around me. I also enjoy going to the gym to work out, but do not like to socialise there at all. I try to stay fit and I think I look pretty good for someone that is 37yrs old. (Although I am not as confidant about my appearance as most people think I am.)
The things I have no interest in are...sports, fixing cars, hunting, partying, too much tv, hip-hop and country music, and guys that think they are too cool. Also, I am allergic to cats and peanuts...so if you have a pet cat or a pet peanut then this is not going to work out. Smoking and drugs are out too.
Willing to help others, even when they are not ready to help themselves.
I am more interested in guys who are low key...easy to talk too, and are able to be with one person. Someone who wants to have my attention and is able to talk to me about their day or what's on his mind. I prefer someone more submissive than not, and does not like to argue but can talk things out and move on.
Physically speaking...I am attracted to more feminine guys than masculine. I am looking for someone 5ft7 or shorter, skinny or even real skinny. I like the guys most people call "nerdy", but I think are highly attractive. The adorable shy types...the guy that is going to lean back into my arms and let me hold him. And I would rather have someone that was somewhat needy, than not, when it comes to having my attention.
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