Be the Change you Wish to See in
the World
I am a person who, I'd like to think, accepts people for who they are and not what I want them to be. I think of myself as being "self aware" in that I know who I am and care about the world around me. I don't care for mind games and the unneeded self absorbed drama that brings. I am happy in a forest, in the mountains with nothing but the sounds that are not of the man made world. I’m also happy in a crowd and enjoy meeting people. I’m a politically active person and not afraid to fight passionately for those issues I believe in. My mother, goddess rest her sole, taught me that by her actions in fighting for equal rights. I enjoy entertaining; having parties, and have been told on more than one occasion that I am the good southern hostess with the manners to go along with it. I believe that you have to be the change you wish to see in the world and you will catch more flies with honey than vinegar. I enjoy wearing high heels and lipstick for a night on the town. However, don’t take that as the “whole” person because you can also find me in the grungy clothes with my power tools. Yes, ladies, I have roofed and built more than one house! I work in the world of men that don’t take me seriously; that I might possibly know more about construction/city planning than they do! Hillary Clinton said something about that glass ceiling – I bump my head on it everyday.p
I am an accomplished Geographic Information Specialist, streamlining many government tasks to reduce duplication of effort. (Yep, I'm a computer geek) I have worked on urban revitalization and rural preservation plans that have won national awards. I am the vice chairperson of the local LGBT community action group. I worked at the state and local level at getting sexual orientation and gender identity included as a protected class in Iowa. Currently I am campaigning for the Democratic Party in Iowa. I am in the process of finishing my basement. I designed and built the house I am currently living in. Growing up I took ballet, tap, jazz, voice, & piano. Still, to this day, I am quite flexable. I was also on the swim team and am an accomplished swimmer.
I would love to meet a womyn who accepts me for who I am, warts and all. One who not afraid of my artsy side who might actually like seeing (tolerating?) a ballet or going to the symphony. I am not a china doll that will break and not afraid to sweat. It would be nice if she didn't freak out if I'm on a ladder hanging upside down. I have done and will do many things on my own, though it is nice to have help every now and then. Loving furry children is a must. You can't be allergic to cats or dogs.
Like most, I want to meet a womyn that will complete the other half of my soul. One who can look into my eyes (and I hers) and know what I am thinking. The one were we can lie in each others arms comfortably in blissful peace. One who is not afraid to speak her mind, but is respectful of mine. A womyn who likes passionate love making not afraid of trying new things! I am at heart, a hopeless romantic and enjoy being swept off my feet – and doing the sweeping. It depends on the mood and the moment.
Finally, I think of myself as young even though I am in my forties. I want to be with a womyn who thinks similarly. Old is not part of my vocabulary.
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Missy Good, Laureen Madison, Lesbian fiction in general
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Do your research!
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Curve, The Advocate, Consumer Reports
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Any!!!
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Local Paper for Local News
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Basement Bathroom
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Architectural/archeology
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Antique Malls
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Lot's of stuff.
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Like shopping at neat one of kind places.
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Other Learning
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Spades
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Philosophy
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Design and build houses. Home improvement junkie
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Nature and Sprituality
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Other Building/Repair
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I like the arts, so any.
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Historic Preservation, LGBT issues, Democratic Party Volunte
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Like to hear local Lesbian talent
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Equal Rights for LGBT and Women. Marriage equality, equal pa
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Action Movies
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LGBT, Democratic Party, Preservation. 'Be the Change
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Documentaries
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Like to do organic when possible.
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Dramas
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Green house emission reduction
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Used to be in them as a kid.
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Your garabage bill will go up if you don't.
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Comedic Plays
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Preserving natural habitats
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Dramatic Plays
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Historic Preservation/Urban Revitalization
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Seatle Washington and Olympic Pennisula.
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Democratic Party Volunteer, Human Rights Campaign. LGBT acti
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Europe, Austraila, New Zealand. Eygpt. Other Cultures
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Ballet, Tap, Jazz
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Athens, Greece - Lesbos. Florence, Italy - Humanism
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Not as often as I want.
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Dinner Parties
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Love to try this. Just looks like fun
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Anything but seafood, goat cheese (Allergy)
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GLBT vice-chair for local group
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I like to try new receipes.
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Paved Trails
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Fine Wine, Single Malt Scotch, Micro Breweries.
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Tennessee Volunteers.
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I took dancing for many years, Ballet, Tap, etc.
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Jet Skiing, Boating
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Painting/Drawing/Sculpting
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I have a table, used to be good. Way out of practice.
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Sewing
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Swimming
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Nature, National Parks, Landscapes
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The Women. Grass Court
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Galleries/Museums
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Not found a place here.
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Classical Music Symphony, Ballet,
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From my window in my living room.
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Short Haired.
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Camping
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Any but the agressive breeds. Mutts are the best!
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Hiking
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Perennials - Lavender, Patchoulli, all herbs
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It's what I do. Database, Maps, etc. GIS Specialist
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English cottage, Zen is nice.
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Energy is transformed to another form of energy
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A neccessary evil.
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Finding out answers to questions.
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Green, Plum, Taupe, Burgandy
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Geography.
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A House (actually 2)
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Are We Compatible?
We could be compatible on so many levels. Take a few compatibility tests to see how we match!
stanzie
50-year-old woman in Council Bluffs, IA
Looking for girls
37 to 48, up to 50 miles from me
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5’6”
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Average
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Blonde
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White / Caucasian
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Attractive
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Associate/2-year degree
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Information technology
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$50,000
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English
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Other
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Divorced
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No
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No
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Daily
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Occasionally
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Women 37 to 48-year-old
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Within 50 miles of Council Bluffs
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5’0” to 5’11”
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Athletic, Average, Muscular, A Few Extra Pounds
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Auburn / Red, Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Dark Brown, Light Brown
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Doesn't Matter
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Some College
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Any
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$50,000
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English
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Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Spiritual, but not Religious, Other
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Never Married, Divorced, Widowed
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No, Yes, Not Living At Home
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No
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Doesn't Matter
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Occasionally, Moderately
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