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I am very realistic about life. I have a degree of optimism, yet it is tempered with reality. Noone or nothing is perfect, so I tend not to look for perfection. A person who is honest and happy with themselves, is very attractive, and bound to find the right person. I also have my flaws, and am willing to openly discuss them with whomever is interested. Age difference has never been an issue with me, as I've always been attracted to older ladies. They are more aware of what they want, desire and are willing to accept the human qualities of a person, rather than expect perfection. Yet, I'm sure there are plenty of younger women with the same qualities, although I find them harder to find. I am not a materialistic person, coming from a poverty level background. I am happy with what I have, and do not dwell on wanting more. For, I believe, that to do so can lead to depressing feelings, and possible despair. I am happy with my lot in life, and seek the same in a partner.

I feel my biggest success lies in a better&n bsp;understandi ng of human nature. It has broadened my repertoire for conversation, with people I would never have taken the time to converse with before. I'm no psychiatrist or psychologist, but realize that communication is the most powerful tool that we as human beings may possess. It also helps to understand our own feelings and how to deal with them successfully. I play guitar, which I consider to be the cheapest form of therapy available. I've been to Nashville, TN, a couple of times seeking my fame and fortune. But alas, I'm still waiting for that phone call! lol! I believe my greatest accomplishment has been siring the most absolutely beautiful and successful daughter I could ever have hoped for. She is my life, my hopes, my dreams, my everything!

I would seek someone who is happy with themselves as a person, and not looking for someone to alter or change, to suit their ideals or beliefs. I accept people with flaws, who are willing to make the neccessary changes in themselves. For they are genuine unto themselves, and any possible partner. A realistic outlook on life, without being depressive and hopeless, for with effort, things will and can improve. I hesitate to describe my "soul mate", in any specific terms, because people change with time. My description of soul mate may also change. In a nutshell, honest, forthcoming and respectful of others thoughts and feelings, are at the top of my list. I hope this helps anyone willing to read this, to understand me. Adieu. peace out.