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I am currently not in a realationship and have decided that I am ready for the next step in my life. I am looking for my other half !!!

***PLEASE READ BEFORE SENDING ME ANY MESSAGES OR WINKS ! ! !  I am getting swamped with winks and messages from people that live hundreds of miles away.  I am very serious about finding my other half, but he has to live within reaching distance from me. Unless of course you are willing and able to travel to ILLinois, then we can compromise and leave it open for discussion. You must must have a picture of yourself... Thank you :-) *** My occupation is as a banker. I am a very responsible, reliable, loving, caring, affectionate intelligent woman. I feel very strong about communication and it is a must have in my relationship. I believe we must be friends first and be able to say and talk about anything in a respectful manner which I believe will only make the relationship stronger. I feel that in relationships we know what we want, and know what we are looking for from the start. I believe we know within ourselves from the start if we are compatible with the other person within moments of being with them and spending some time with each other pretty much, but a lot of the times we tend to say o' maybe he or she will change those little things we don't approve of or don't like, but really in the long run we just end up wasting each others time. Because in reality you are who you are. So, with that being said, I don't have time to waste. I am looking for someone who is willing to settle down and can be with just me. A family, respectful, trusting, attractive, responsible, affectionate, devoted, loving man. If that's you, I would love the opportunity to get to know you. . .

I am grateful to be able to say that I have been able to manage life alone with God's help. I was raised to be caring and respectful of others, but at the same time to be strong as a woman and stand my own ground. Never drift away or apart from what I believe in. I am very proud of whom I have become through life experiences. I am wanting to share all of me with that special someone who deserves me.

I want to find that one person who knows what he wants in life, and is not afraid of commitment and of being with just me...Someone who can acknowledge and appreciate a Good Woman when she is in front of him. Willing to work hard and put the time and effort it takes to make it happen with everything and anything we do together in life. Someone who understands that it is plain and simple with everything you do in life, it's either you want it or you don't. There is no gray area or middle ground, cause that's when things get complicated, confusing, and difficult. Not to mention the excuses and lies for things not getting done or coming through. Again its simple, it's "All or Nothin" !!!