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Oh, here we are at the dreaded...describe yourself part.  Don't you just hate this part? I am a single mom of 4...23,21,19, 14.  My kids have always come first but now I think I am ready for some "me" time.  I have been single for over a year and a half, my choice.(have dated a little)  I needed to know I could survive without being in a relationship.  I didn't want to be in a (bad) relationship for the sake of being in a relationship.  I wanted to break a cycle, a bad habit, so to speak. Read more about me in the "who I'd like to meet"

My kids are my greatest accomplishments. My second would be that I took time to be alone to find out what I want, not what I think I might want. &nbs p;  & amp; nbsp;

I am mainly looking to make a few friends.  Sometimes, I feel I am the only single lesbian in Indiana!  :)  Not looking to rush into a relationship.  I don't have a u-haul on stand by reserve! I like women who like to talk, but can also listen.  Can give as well as take.  Someone who makes me smile:)  Kind,compassona te,loving.  ; ; If the relationship goes to a higher level, she must want to be loved,touched, kissed, romanced.  I want an equal...someone who can display affection, who can talk about how she is feeling.  Sometimes, we all get defensive, thinking someone is pointing out faults.  So, we clam up and hide what is bothering us.  I don't want that.  Communication is the key to any relationship. Honesty is VERY important!  Don't keep something from me just because you think I might get mad.  Because if you do and then tell me, I get ANGRY!  I can get over mad alot easier than angry.  It damages the trust in a relationship.  If you can't trust someone it can make you very insecure in the relationship.  I also want someone who KNOWS how to be in a relationship!  There are ups and downs in ANY relationship.  I want someone who knows how to work on it.  Not try to blame others for the mistakes they have made...intentional or not.  I want to TALK, not me talking and her screaming and cussing.  Someone who wants to compromise and settle the issue before going to bed or leaving for work.  Someone who isn't controling, who doesn't make all the decisions.  I NEED to be WANTED...not want to be NEEDED!  Sure we all want our girlfriend to need us to a certain point, but I don't want to feel like I am taking care of a child!  Someone who believes that both of you will try to make it work.  Someone who will want me to love her no matter what and she will love me no matter what. (within reason