I think I've finally figured out what to write for these things.
I'm an artistic person. I feel passionately, but I also think my first priority is to think rationally. Essentially what this boils down to is a generally fiery, but easy-going, personality; I know what I want, how to differentiate that from what I actually need, and generally why I need or want one thing or another. This tends to make me pretty philosophically mature and more apt to being exceptionally open-minded. However, we've all got our own baggage, and I'm no exception. I've worked hard to clear it all down to "carry-on luggage" that, thankfully, I can handle myself. I like to continually reduce unnecessary drama in my life. Occasionally I'm childish, but I always come around rather quickly. I tend to make a lot of disclaimers, so much so that I've actually thought of getting one tattooed on my ass. Usually, I'm just happy, silly, and a kid at heart. "Chill", I believe, is the expression. Dry sarcasm has procured from me a large, comfortable room with all the amenities. I don't think being open and honest precludes mystery and excitement, nor does planning. I enjoy sex on a 'very regular' basis. My background could definitely be called eclectic, and my personality reflects that. I've been known to be snobby. I am quite definitely a recovering grammar nazi. I have also been known to scratch myself in public. I adjust to things quickly, value the practical and beautiful, and always take the time to just enjoy life. I am philosophically against American Protestant ethics, especially when they create a tendency toward workaholism and stoicism. Sometimes I think God is a really funny and sad joke and sometimes I think god is just a way to express something connecting all things cummulatively. I laugh a lot. If this is all still sounding good to you, message me. We can meet up and I
I was in a third grade reader in first grade. I made second place in a city-wide art contest in second. I skipped seventh grade and graduated from technical college before graduating high school. I left my really f**ked up cultish religion a few years ago and have yet to go crawling back. I came out to my first boyfriend and then to most everyone else. I'm a great aunt. I did my best to keep a failing secular group on campus from failing but then was able to accept when it had. I have remained good friends with one of my very first best friends who I met at just 3 months old; I was her Maid of Honor at her wedding and we've been through it all. I finally made the leap and moved away from my hometown this last year; I can't figure out why I didn't do this earlier.
I couldn't clearly tell you
what I'm looking for in a girl.
I like so many different
combinations that just spouting off
about some shape-shifting
chameleon dream girl who's never
the same twice seems
ridiculous. I'd just have to come back
and edit it in a week anyway
and, well, f**k, I'm just too
lazy for that. What I'll do it
just list off a few qualities
that appeal to me pretty much
across the board: easy-going,
low-drama, and just generally
laid-back; up for anything,
eclectic, diverse, open-minded,
not overly finicky; artistic,
creative, problem-solving,
rational, logical, good
conversationalist, interested reader,
nature lover, night owl, deep
thinker, philosopher,
jane-of-all-trades, girl Friday,
sensually sexual being. There are
more I like, but if most of
these seem like you, we should
talk. Physically, I tend to like
someone whose body is average
to pleasantly plump (and that
ranges up farther than you'd
think), but a general soft
firmness with plenty to grab is
probably a better way of
describing it. (I'm not into bones or
giant waves of cottage
cheese.) A pretty, natural, sweet
face is always a big plus.
Again, here I'm pretty open-minded
and diverse. I'm not
especially fond of make-up and think,
like Christy Brinkley once
said, that the point of make-up is
to look like you're not
wearing any. I like to try strange,
foreign, and new foods, so it
would be great if that
appeals to you. You should like kids
and be open to the idea of
eventually having some, but you
should not be looking to do
that now. Being agnostic,
atheist, or otherwise non-religious
is preferred, but I'm not
about to discount you for having
some spirituality. I like
someone fairly independent and
self-sufficient, but who is also
generous with her time. If you
can appreciate a compliment or
a helpful act of affection,
that's fantastic. You shouldn't
have too many h
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Fenchurch42
32-year-old woman in Lawrence, KS
Looking for girls
21 to 40, up to 50 miles from me
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5’4”
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A few extra pounds
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Not specified
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White / Caucasian
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Attractive
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Some college
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Professional/manager/supervisor
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$25,000
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English
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Agnostic
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Never married
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No
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Undecided
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Smoke socially
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Moderately
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential
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Women 21 to 40-year-old
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Within 50 miles of Lawrence
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5’0” to 6’5”
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Athletic, Average, Muscular, A Few Extra Pounds, Large
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Auburn / Red, Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Dark Brown, Light Brown, Mostly Gray, Not Specified
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Doesn't Matter
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High School
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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English
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Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Hindu, Jewish, Spiritual, but not Religious, Other, Not Specified
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Any
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No, Yes, Living at Home Sometimes
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Yes, Undecided
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Doesn't Matter
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Occasionally, Moderately
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