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Think different, think me
There is always that class you take where you have to write an essay about yourself and I always hated that. This is pretty much the same way. I'm all about reality and logic and find sites like this illogical but am interested in seeing what's out there. I've been through some rough times in the last year and have not found the type of people out there who take life seriously. I'm pretty religious but struggle with my faith. It seems like most people out there just go through the motions with their beliefs or don't care at all. What's even worse is that a lot of people don't even care about themselves. I see the reality in that and have a hard times sometimes too, but I have two wonderful reasons to really look at myself in a very unique way. I have two little girls that currently live with me who are the absolutes in my life. Granted, it doesn't give me much time for a lot of extracurricular activities. But I hope to find that person out there who understands that and understands that there is no such thing as an attention game. I give as much as I can and do what I can. For some that's not enough but I don't ask anything in return. I love intimacy but it takes me a while to get comfortable and to that point. And, to put it blunt, it's hard for me to trust. So, in short, I'm looking for that person who can make the time that I spend with them fun and cheery, understand the times I can't be with them, and who I can learn to open up to and feel it's okay. This all may sound cheesy but I'm looking for someone to share my life with, not just someone to be or live with. Some people don't know the difference and I do.
Well, I have been the best father I can be. I'd say that's the accomplishment I am proudest. I have tried many things but never seem to get off the floor. I feel that when you find the right person that that person will support you and help bring out the best in you. Maybe, if I find that person, that will happen to both of us. So, I guess you could say that the best is yet to come. I hope to find someone in that same mindset. And let's have fun doing it - yes, that other "doing it" too if it comes to that. We all need that too, right? But for me, it's a portion of the package, and not what makes the whole gift. If you agree with that and have a great sense of humor and not simple-minded (one of my favorite things to do is discuss philosophy, religion, politics, or the implications of the latest hit movie - talking can be so fun and you learn a lot about each other as long as you stay open minded), then contact me to find out more about the package that is me. If we fit, we can accomplish many great things together. And isn't that the way it's supposed to be?
I really would like to find a
kind hearted woman who knows
what life is REALLY about -
someone who isn't selfish and
sees others needs above theirs.
Selfishness is for everyone
else, but not for me. I'm an
attractive man who wants to find
an attractive woman to create
an attractive couple that
everyone smiles just to see. Any
way you look at it, I want
someone who wants me the same
way I want them and I want
someone to feel that way about. To
do this, I hope to find
someone who is funloving but knows
what it really means to be
human. Otherwise, it's just
fluff and, for me, that's out of
style.
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c_captain
40-year-old man in La Center, KY
Looking for girls
25 to 35, up to 50 miles from me
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5’9”
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Not specified
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Dark brown
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White / Caucasian
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Attractive
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Some college
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Creative, arts and entertainment
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$35,000
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English
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Christian - other
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Divorced
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Yes, living at home
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Undecided
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Former smoker
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Do not drink
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Women 25 to 35-year-old
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Within 50 miles of La Center
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5’0” to 6’0”
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Slender, Athletic, Average
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Any
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Latin / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
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Some College
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Any
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$35,000
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English
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Christian - Other, Spiritual, but not Religious
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Never Married, Divorced
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Doesn't Matter
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Doesn't Matter
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Never, Former Smoker, Not Specified
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Doesn't Matter
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