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I am a 46 year old helping professional that believes in hard work, ethics and gaining personal fulfilment with what you do for a living. I am a warm, caring and compassionate person who believes that love,people and being of service-enhancing other people's life experiences is what gives my life meaning and person. I am trustworthy, loyal and sensitive to others feelings-i am assertive but not brutally honest at the expense of others that's what you have a good support network for-to be able to trust and confide your deepest feelings in.  I have a deep sense of family including friends and my wonderful pets ( 3 cats and 1 dog). I like to be social but also enjoy my time alone-i believe that your never too old to grow and learn about yourself as a matter of fact one of my favourite quotes is "The unexamined life is not worth living".  i am very passionate about my work, my family, my values-both spiritual and political ( Democrat by the way)-I believe love is an action not just a feeling it does take work and commitment but should be filled with more joy than pain.

Where should i start-my biggest accomplishments in my life i no particular order are getting and staying sober for 20 years, getting a Bachelors and a Masters-also being a certified alcohol and drug counselor, having close relationships with my mom,sister,roommate,nephew and his family-having my own business and home-of course my furry babies ( 3 cats, 1 dog). being willing to continue to grow and change and be the best person i can be.

I am looking for a loving, caring , trustworthy woman-attractive ( which is subjective)-including inner beauty-i like confidence but not arrogance-i would like someone loyal and sensitive that feels as passionate and strongly about me as i do her-thinking of each others happiness-but there must be a firm foundation of self-love and self-care-but not selfishness and distance. I have varied interests-i would love someone to curl up with and watch college football and basketball, enjoy making a warm and comfortable environment ( i do alot of remodelling)-I want someone that likes to shop, dine out, cook, go to museums, art fairs, flea markets, concerts and im up for trying whatever.  Most importantly i want someone who is not afraid to share and express their heart and feelings, dreams and goals-communication and trust to me are the basis of a happy and solid relationship.