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My name is Greg, I'm 31 and I was born and raised in Boston and have never left. My family is all in the area and we are very close so I stay. We still have coffee at my grandmother's every Sunday night! So my family and friends are very important to me. I work for the AIDS Program at the Boston Public Health Commission as a program coordinator. It's far more administrative than I ever expected my career to be, but there's no denying the importance of the work. My real passion however is hate crime prevention and response. I truly hope to get back to the work one day. There's still much to do. I know it is a cliche, but I really do like long walks on the beach at night, holding hands and each other when the sun sets...I am an incurable romantic, who is very affectionate. That's not to say I don't believe relationships require work and effort, they do. But I can think of few things more worthy of our efforts and energies than sharing love and life with another. Favorite Music: Babs, Cher, Stevie Nicks, Grace Slick, Ann Wilson, Bonnie Raitt, Howie Day, Rufus Wainright, Johnny Lang, Gavin DeGraw. Favorite Books: The Mists of Avalon, The Last of the Wine Favorite Movies: Torch Song Trilogy, You Can Count On Me, When Harry Met Sally, A Star is Born Anything else? Ask! I'm an open book.

Accomplishments huh? Well let's see.... By far the greatest accomplishment is learning all the lines to the opening Monologue in Torch Song Trilogy. That should serve me well someday : )

In terms of relationships,an open mind, a kind heart, comfort with intimacy (both physical and verbal) a commitment to family, monogamy, a sense of humour and a desire to have children are amongst the list of things I look for. Most everything else is flexible and negotiable.Communication is everything. Anyone can be a great boyfriend when things are going well. I want the person who says, "You know what? Things suck right now. But I'm here. And I am going to work with you to make this work". That to me is what commitment is all about. It's what I give and what I hope to find in return. I don't like terms like "The one". I think these are dangerous concepts. The idea that there's one person in the world made perfect for you has never sat well with me. I think it leads people to give up too easily, sometimes at the first signs of conflict in a relationship. Because if that person were the one, there would be no conflict right? Wrong I say! Relationships are glorious in that they are messy sometimes. I want someone who won't mind getting messy with me : ) If any of this sounds interesting, let me know! Would love to chat with folks and who knows, meet the right person maybe?