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I grew up in South Dakota and have lived in Germany, Alaska and currently in Rhode Island. I am a member of the Rhode Island National Guard where I am a Military Police Sergeant and also work full time in civilian law enforcement. I have three children. The youngest lives with me and he is 14 years old. My two older children live here in Rhode Island but are on their own.  I am very family oriented and we spend most of our time together. This is just the way I am, I do not like the bar scene and do not frequent them. We spend our time at the gym playing basketball, racquetball, lifting weights, cardio excercise, sauna etc.... We also go to the movies, dine out, fishing, or just lounging at home with a good movie (Sci-Fi, a good mystery/drama), watching CSI, or BBQ'in. I am a good cook and I keep my place clean. I have a very witty sense of humor.  I am here looking for a Lady, someone who values family, a faithful, honest Lady that I can trust and I promise the same in return. I absolutely love children and would prefer to meet a Lady that has children. I am a very romantic person, I never forget birthdays, anniversary, holidays. I like to give more than receive, flowers, a spontaneous night out for dinner or overnight at a hotel/spa, or even a simple card to say thanks for being "you." I do have my children with/near me, friends and relatives reassuring me that everything will be fine....but I miss having a true "best friend/partner" next to me. I hope what I have written here finds its way to the right Lady.

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I am looking for a Lady that is faithful, honest and trustworthy. If you can be honest to yourself and respect yourself I would like to meet you. I can't lie, won't lie to you and I would appreciate the same attitude in return. Someone who can decide where she would like to eat, what she would like to do on any given weekend, what movie she would like to see etc..... and if something/anything needs to be discussed please say something, don't keep it to yourself, open and honest communication is a huge asset in a relationship. I am NOT interested in someone who likes to date or see multiple people. I have dealt with that for the past six years and I am not interested in women like that. I am looking for a quality woman, someone who is beautiful on the inside and loves children. Last but not least, if you are still reading this you may be the Lady I am looking for.