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Things That Make Me Who I Am:-Surviving drama people send my way-Holding my ground when people try to push me over the edge-Putting my mother and sister first-Having a positive outlook on life even through the negativeWhat's important to me?-Love-A happy home-Both sides making each other happy-Family-Building a stable environment for my future children-A solid foundation to build a life upon-Singing (my voice, music, songs I write)What makes me unique?This is very hard to answer because I have a weird blend of traits that I've been told make me the perfect woman. I just happened to have been crazy enough to give almost 4 years of my life to someone who didn't deserve it. Someone who couldn't appreciate a woman who would be there no matter what, tried to see the good even when she's being hit, called out her name and treated like she's some kind of property. But I am a woman who lets one man's mistakes be his own. If you didn't make them you don't have to suffer for them.

I am very proud of the fact that I made it through everything thrown my way so far. I am proud of the fact that I've never been locked up or put into a drug rehabilitation program. I don't go out and get high or drunk. I don't waste money on terrible habits. I'm proud that I carry myself like a woman and not a young girl. I am very proud that my mother raised me to be my own woman but know how to take care of home at a young age. I am proud that I have graduated and am going to college. I am proud that no matter how many negative seeds people plant, I still find the rose in the garden. I am proud that God made me who I am to make a difference in other people's lives.

I ask for little from a man just his respect and acceptance of who I am and what I've overcome. I want someone who won't take another woman's side over mine and won't stand by while ANYONE disrespects me. I would like to meet someone who is caring and understanding of the fact that your past is just that... the past and if you share something with him about it he won't use it against you when he's angry. I would like to meet a person who believes a relationship is 100-100 I give it all so you give it all, not 30-70 where we only make 100 and I'm putting in more effort to make it work. I want to meet a person who doesn't judge and knows that peopls learn from their mistakes. A person who I can conversate with and not feel like I'm dumbing down my end to be understood. I've already met what I don't want and as long as it's not that I'll be happy.