my friends tell me i'm a serial monogomist which i'm guessing is a good thing. i've been involved in 2 long term relationships. the first was almost 20 years and involved raising children and the second was 5 years and involved not raising children. both men were heterosexual when they met me and i believe they were truly bisexual as they had occasional trysts with women over the years. i never felt the need to step outside either relationship but i understand their need and i did my best not to hold it against them. i'm a confirmed student, returning to school frequently. i like learning things that i want to know and have 2 terminal degrees but have no intention currently of completing another. i love reading any and every thing and i live to travel. i was educated in boarding school and have no family anymore so i'm free to do and be anything i desire. i cook like a gourmet chef, owned my own restaurant, i've written several books and published in several gay periodicals. i'll talk your ear off or sit in silence and just enjoy the company. its all about the moment and the chemistry.
i'm the male version of ina garten. love spending time in the kitchen experimenting with food. its how i show love for my friends. i love long slow..... fill in the blank with anything you want: bathes, meal, weekends, trips.. you name it. i'm quiet, introspective, aware of the people around me and very sensetive to them and their needs as wellas my own.
i'm interested in a man that recognise that not all men are created equal. we all have talents and desires, abilities and shortcomings. he should be able to laugh with the people that are laughing at him and understand that appearing ridiculous is a treat to be relished sometimes. if you're the jealous type then we won't get on well, and if you lack spontaneity then were challenged for sure. i like tall men, dark hair, big shoulders (not just the physical kind) and a quick mind. win my mind and the rest is easy.
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