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Pics are me- May 07 & later.
PLEASE READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE.
I'm fun, witty, down to earth,
romantic, stable financially
& emotionally. I've got a
great sense of humor. No drama.
I'm not bitter about my ex,
clingy, dependent or a feminist.
Amicably divorced w/2 good
teens & 1 adult daughter (all with
my only ex husband). I'm not
on here for "email buddies",
"instant message buddies", or
"friends with benefits", etc.
I'm on here to find a decent
guy to date monogamously for us
both.
About me: (By the way,
I'm average size everywhere,
could stand to lose 10 lbs
because of my height. But yes,
I'm...voluptuous. So if skinny
or bony women or hard bodies
are your thing, you won't like
me. I'm a real woman with real
curves. The pictures are
recent and taken by my teenage
daughter.)
To know what I like,
please see interests above. My
adult daughter lives on her
own & my 2 young teens live with
me & visit their dad every
other weekend. We were married
18 years, split in 2001 & are
divorced for years now & no
drama. I'm picky about who I
date. I will not ever abandon or
neglect my kids for anyone. If
I date someone & we see it's
going somewhere, he will have
to accept my kids & be a
POSITIVE person in their lives.
We're a package deal. I'm not
asking a man to "raise" or
financially support my kids, I'm
doing that, & a pretty good job of
it too- they don't drink, do
drugs etc. I'm mature with my
life together & my head on
straight & employed full time.
I'm looking for 1 good man to
date & see where it goes. I'm
feminine NOT feminist! I don't
want to talk endlessly about
the "ex files" or other old
history. Let's focus on the
present & the future. I don't
require a man to "prove to me
they're not all the same" - You all
stand on your own merit- or
lack of it. I'm not looking for
someone to "make" me laugh or
"make" me happy. You have to
know how to laugh

Raising 3 great kids, still
raising two actually.


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THE KIND OF MAN I'M LOOKING FOR: An UNATTACHED single, divorced or widowed caucasian man age 40-53, ht 5'8-6'4 that looks his age or younger, who lives within 1 hr.or less of my town. I prefer an average, muscular or slightly over build not skinny. Pls. have current pictures of yourself. What I'm looking for is not an "impossible" man. Men like this do exist! First- A man with LITTLE OR NO Drama! Example: constant dealing with crazy exs - either with fighting or clinging by either party = bad. I also don't want the following: men who are so busy they have no time to build a relationship with a woman, men who're unemployed or underemployed, and/or debt ridden, alcoholics & drug users. I have none of what I mentioned, although my life is not perfect, no one's is. This is not asking for the impossible. This is knowing what I want & expecting a decent guy! Why should I settle for someone who's clearly not right for me? I'm not desperate! BIG TURNOFFS for me regarding men: Long hair, bad teeth, poor hygiene, being uneducated. I prefer non smokers but will consider a smoker who isn't a heavy one or who is trying to quit, or who is considerate & smokes outside only.