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I'm pretty eccentric. I like to socialize extensivly with my friends. Even so, i like to be alone, meditate, haha, play my video games. Umm, what can i say? i'm kinda dorky, but i don't look it, ya know? I'm hardcore into metaphysical philosophy. i know, it's a turn off for the grand majority of the gay pop, but thats a good thing: one of the fringe benifits of digging intellectual intercourse.
I'm not terribly nature-oriented, aka hiking up a mountain. that stuff would wind me fiercly. I like little things, like daily pilates/yoga, and fun exercises like Hoola dancing, and learning new dance techniques in the downtown plaza, with my friends after a martini. See? its the outting that counts, IMO.
Basically, i would term myself an intense individual. my longest relationship wasn't very "long" at 7 months. i think i might've been in love with all of 3 people since i began dating. Well, it obviously didn't work out. I have problems understanding why people can't just be open to being loved, instead of thinking they might loose part of themselves in the process. ahh, lol, swindlers, all of them.
I have a fairly strong personality,but i don't mind letting myself be dominated sometimes, equal partnership and jazz. I can't stand a domineering person, or arrogance. Esteem and Self-assurance are great, however.

I oil paint when i feel inspired. I really love going to see my friends art work, at thier houses, in art shows and boutiques. surrounding myself with talented people brings out some interesting creative pieces from me. One other thing about me. My religion is pretty involved, but not inhibiting. lol, i'm a demonolator, and dig it. it's not that i worship satan, but the egyptian gods, and babylonian ones, i find it all fascinating, hence the interest in philosophy and metaphysics.

Anyone who is secure in themselves. I get that everyone seems to want to be famous and leave their mark on the world, but knowing yourself is first and foremost, to me. I like for people to be themselves around me. I mean, do what you're going to do three weeks after getting to know me. that way we can start from there. No monkey business. I guess clean appearnaces, for the most part, appeal to me. Honestly, i would be lying if i didn't say that i like alittle hair on his chest. you know, the average look, with a unique twist: the personality and drive. SO that should make it easier for you to get what i'm looking for. "Looks fade, personality lasts forever," i say. Independence is important too. i sure as hell take my time seperating myself from established structures in my own life. sometimes i need a boost in the optimistically right direction. I'm a very open person, and will talk about anything, so i dig verbally engaging folks, especially if i can rip off a new witticism. that's love in and of itself. Words make or break my interest in people. why? well, it's the foot in the door, and the way to shut it behind you. a good convinving arguement can change my mind, but emotional outbursts make me gag alittle. in the end, it's whatev, it's all in the lips.