Extremely Affectionate Teddy Bear
Seeks His Forever Honey!
My headline says it. I am all about affection. I am all about fidelity. I am all about commitment. The only thing or person whom I would possibly love more than my man is my God. My faith means more to me than my man. That fact, I believe, makes me less of a risk to my potential partner. I believe that it makes me an even better potential mate, in that I am going to be faithful to my man and to our commitment to each other. I am in for the long haul. If a guy wants a short-term relationship, he doesn't really want me. I mean forever. I know that I am looking for younger men. I have ceased to apologize for that. Initially, I said that I would consider men from 18 to 54. Yet, the majority of men whom I am meeting are younger than 45. So, I lowered my search by ten years. I fit better with younger men. I think like a younger man, with the benefit of a desire to settle down with ONE man for the rest of our lives.Therefore, if a younger man wants extreme affection, faithful commitment, and adoration forever from his partner, he wants to look in my direction. If a younger man takes the time to find out what I bring to the table, he will discover that he is not settling for less when he settles down with me. I want to settle down without settling for less. I want the same for my forever man.
My dad said that I was (am) a professional student. I suppose that he was largely correct. I never thought that I would end up teaching on every grade level (except fifth) from fourth through college freshman. I had no idea that I would act as interim principal/administrator of a K-11 private academy. I didn't plan that I would ever become the academic dean of a four-year private college. I really didn't think that I would serve as the founding pastor of a church. Still, I had accomplished most of these before I turned 30 years old. My educational credentials are as follows: a bachelor's degree in education and administration; a master's degree in education (history); and, a doctoral degree in an area of public speaking. Much of my life has been spent in the areas of education, theology, and music. I have released five vocal music albums through the years. I have pastored or served on the staffs of several church congregations. I was formally ordained to the ministry at age 22. Currently, I am serving in itinerant educational and musical ministries. In addition, I have been appointed as academic dean for the second time, this time for a college and a seminary. Also, I am pursuing credentials with the Alliance of Christian Churches, a gay-friendly evangelical group. My dream is to have my forever man by my side while I pastor a congregation of the ACC. Is this too much for which I should ask or hope? I believe that there is some younger man who would prosper in life and love, were he to join me in these endeavors, as I would support him in his.
My forever man is a lover of God, even more than of me. He not only doe not hinder me in my efforts in ministry, but agrees with and cooperates in them. He loves to receive all kinds of affection: emotionally and physically. He loves to give that affection in return. He loves me for my fidelity in commitment to us, and possesses the same fidelity toward me and our relationship. He is not a party animal, but is cordial in gatherings and flirtatious in public only toward me. He always enjoys being worshipped by me, both in public and in private.I could say that I want a seven-foot Nordic blonde, with a thirty-two-inch waist, who is hung for days. That might be nice. However, I don't care how tall or short he is in height. Nor do I really care how large his genitals are. I am an oralist. That is, I do most of my love making with my tongue, lips, and mouth. I am not what is commonly called a size queen. As long as the equipment works, I am satisfied. And, if his plumbing sometimes seems to fail, I have other ways to show my man that he is still my one and only. I can still be happy and make him happy. Also, I prefer lean (but, not skinny) guys. On the other hand, the best sex I have ever had was with a chub. So, I can find all types of men attractive: twinks, chasers, chubs, bears, and chub bears -- in that usual order. I prefer smooth instead of hairy, although that is not a deal breaker. Other that his face, mouth, and eyes, I care most about my man's ass. I am an ass man. I love my man's squeaky-clean ass! A shapely tushie is a definite plus, to me. YUM!Only these few things are absolute musts. He must, as already discussed, be a friend of my God, my faith, and my ministry. He m
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Daily
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Kirk Talley
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PhD -- I would like to teach on the university level.
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Ricky Martin forever!
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Life questions encompass a big part of my work and ministry.
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The one and only Roberta Flack!
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Keeping my mouth closed and my elbow straight--not eating!
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Don't limit me that much!
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I have teach social studies and humanities.
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I have recorded/released four albums of vocal music (Gospel)
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My orthodox Christian belief system is paramount to me.
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Csirn terriers, schnauzers, and westies
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The old Hallelujah Supper Club in Newton, NC -- many memorie
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I remodeled my former house with purple, blue, yellow walls.
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The original Talleys and the Ruppes
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Other Home, Garden & Pets
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Not a club, but a venue -- Dominion Valley, Stuart, VA
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Other Games
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The audience becomes part of the excitement.
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I'm an avid major league baseball fan. Go, Marlins and Rays
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What's the name?? John Ritter, glow-in-the-dark condoms . .
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I am avidly anti-abortion. I am avidly pro-gay marriage.
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American Giggolo - Richard Gere nude frontal scene!
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I am an itinerant teacher and musician in church settings.
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JOHN DAVIDSON in Happiest Millionaire or Family Band
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I am a Ronald Reagan Republican on most issues.
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RICHARD GERE, ROBERT DOWNEY, JR., JAMES SPADER
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Heh-heh!
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Key West, FL -- where else?
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DAN UGGLA (Yum!) and the Florida Marlins; the Tampa Bay Rays
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The roots of New England Calvinism -- New Haven, Boston
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Jeff Gordon -- who else???
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Give me south Florida and Puerto Rico. I'm easy to please!
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I LOVE to swim!
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The bufet at the Golden Corral -- I have simple tastes!
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Hiking
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The Burger King Whopper is the world's best burger!
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Other Outdoor Recreation
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I keep the road hot between NC and FL.
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Can't you guess? Think a minute. Interested???
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Pansy Division and Butthole Surfers
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I found YOU here, didn't I??
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Steve Wariner, Garth Brooks, Gary Morris
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hutch34990
57-year-old man in Winston Salem, NC
Looking for guys
18 to 45, up to 50 miles from me
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5’9”
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Large
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Bald
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White / Caucasian
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A little above average
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Graduate degree
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Non-profit, clergy and social services
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Unspecified
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English
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Christian - other
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Never married
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No
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No
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Smoke socially
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Do not drink
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Men 18 to 45-year-old
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Within 50 miles of Winston Salem
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3’0” to 7’11”
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Slender, Athletic, Average, A Few Extra Pounds, Large
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Auburn / Red, Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Dark Brown, Light Brown
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Asian, Latin / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
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Doesn't Matter
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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English
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Christian - Other, Protestant
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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Doesn't Matter
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Never
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