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I am just a normal guy who has a passion for liking other people. I have had my fair share of disappointment and it tends to make me very weary of ever meeting good people anymore. So I tend to be more withdrawn and very quiet unless you know me. I am a thinker... and rarely.. VERY RARELY ever get the notion or opportunity to approach anyone. So I just hope that someone picks me out of a crowd and that I may be someone they are looking for. Don't get it twisted... I am nothing like you have ever seen. I have what I think is a great personality and can be very funny. I tend to be more open, not OUT.. than most. I like many different things... musics... foods... movies... and can carry on many different conversations. I am not a know it all... but I pay attention to my surroundings. I am not a big sports nut.. but I love my Tarheels.. and like playing basketball when I can. I like video games... cars... computers.. and lots of other things. Still into toons. Love almost all new things. I like the idea of having friends with benefits. For the record... I am not playing anyone and would never. I get the expression too good to be true way too often... WHY???? But if there is anything else... feel free to ask. I am not your garden variety gay guy... my goal is to find a person... who is real, and wants someone real around them. So if you find meaning to any of these words... feel free to ... me... not sure how long I will be paying for this... but it all depends on you guys... don't disappoint.

Accomplishments..... Well I have managed to find people to place in my life and they haven't been there when I needed them most. So I learned that everyone isn't who they seem, some may have cool and noble intentions.... and then there are the others. I have also learned that we are our own best friend, if you can not love yourself, you can never love another. So learn your heart is another thing I have had to accomplish. Money??? That is nothing. You can be super rich and be miserable. You can be poor and miserable.... you can be anyone and miserable... so the dead presidents on a peice of paper doesn't do ANYTHING for me. I have learned that by looking into your heart you can find many things, and it is up to the individual to go succeed or fail where and when you want, it is probably best to live your life for you, because once you are gone... no one will really remember that much about you. Just to sneak this into here, I saw Brokeback Mountain, and I have to say it opens a lot of doors I am sure in everyones life. There have been disappointments in my life and I would like to find a way to bring only good people to me, so if you are a good person, and genuine... do what your heart feels.

Ok... I am not looking to marry anyone... or be someone who you have to call every 30 minutes to see if i am screwing around on them. I am just trying to find a guy who will be friends first.. and know me and see if there is more chemistry. HEading straight to the bed is not gonna find out what I am like mentally... or if at all what is on the surface. I tend to lean towards masculine guys who aren't needy... and know what it means to have their own lives and doesn't draw unwanted attention to theirselves... sorry if that sounds like I am a coward or something... but that is the way I am. Love a guy with a great pair of beautiful eyes and it would be sa-weet to find just an average everyday dude who is all about a dude... and not themselves.