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Well, I am not really all that unique or super-talented....not all that clever or super smart....just an average black man in Fayetteville...underpaid, overworked, and looking for someone special. When you see me, my ears jump out at you first, and sometimes I may look mean, but that is just because I have to get to know someone before I open up. I love movies, talking on the phone, interesting conversation, music, shopping and eating....don't we all? I am a pretty straight-laced guy...no drugs, don't smoke, rarely drink, and I don't really like living dangerously.....not even a speeding ticket in my past.......Most people say I drive like an old lady, but I think that is a good thing, because you never see old ladies getting pulled over, do you? Didn't think so. Other than that, if you decide you want to get to know me, you can and will figure out more about me in time....

I don't have much to brag about yet, other than the fact that I pay my own bills without depending on a man or anyone else to support me, and I do have a full-time job and plans to go back to college to pursue a degree so that I can finally have my own home and live the life that I have always dreamed of....hopefully, it will be with Mr.Right by my side, but if not, so be it. I have been alone before, and I am not going to fall apart if I have to be alone again....I am a good person, I have my priorities in order....EDUCATION, MONEY, FAMILY, FRIENDS and FUTURE....but that all comes after my obligation to myself. I am not selfish, just realizing that you have to take care of yourself, because everyone else is too busy taking care of themselves to put you first, so why not share in that mentality? I give almost everyone a chance until they mess up, and then I tend to just walk away unless I feel that they are worth my time and energy.

I am open to about 90 percent of what the universe has to offer to me. I don't believe in judging based on looks, because truthfully, I don't find myself to be all that attractive, so for me to expect external perfection from others would be hypocritical and wrong. I want someone with a good heart, a good head on their shoulders, HOPEFULLY, (knock on wood)...a JOB...(it seems like sometimes it is hard to find a good man with a job for some reason!)..I don't have any race or physical "requirements", but I prefer non-smokers (or if you do smoke, please don't smell like an ashtray") and men who don't dabble in illegal activities (if you get my drift!) I HATE shallow, superficial men who look for the 3 Fs....financial sugar daddy, f-buddy and "friend with benefits".....I am not looking for any of these things, and if you are looking for those things in me, you are looking in  the  WRONG place...I have had enough meaningless sex and bs games to last for at least another 2 or 3 months...hehehe heheh....kiddin g.....Aside from this, I am open to pretty much anything...