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I am a very independent person, opened minded and adventurous ,I have been in 2 long term relationships,both of who depended on me to support them  financialy, I need someone who is financialy  stable. and comfortable with themselves, I like my time and need our time. sex is important, but not everything.I am 38 with some extra weight, not bad .I am 6 feet weigh about 190. i smoke, drink lightly, i am hiv- love my family,pets, and hobbies, i am a regional certified trainer for a major retail company,own my own home, and love life photo is a while ago NO PHOTO, NO CHAT

i have been in retail for years, and love it,currantly i have been with my job for 9 years, and doing well , i also have several online stores i do in my spare time

I am looking for someone stable and financialy  secure, opened minded, average build hairy chest is good,I am curios of black men, never been with one? I love goat tees. this person needs to like sex, but not make it a demand, mutual is great. 2-3 times a week is perfect, not every day,maybe in the beginning? but not as a means to live. no alcoholics, no hiv+,no dead beats, i don't mind paying for things as long as it is mutual and reciprocated  and not demanded.i like being in love and being loved please if you dont have a photo dont respond to this, i  need to see you,like you needed to see me,