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I suppose I could try to lie




about me and say that I

am
an

always happy
and

optimistic

person
who is
fun to
be
around

100% of
the
time, but I

am not a

competent
liar
and

dislike
lying
with
a passion

anyways.
Like

a lot of

people, I have


experienced


considerable

hardships
and

setbacks in my
life.


However,
unlike some

people, I
am
very

forgiving.

Whenever
somebody
upset


me, I knew to take




several hours to a day or two




alone to calm down and
then to



come back and set
aside



differences and
heal


relationships.

This is a
lesson I
have

had
to
learn the hard

way,
but I

have learned

it well. On
the

other
hand,
I have not

held a

grudge
against

anybody
for at

least a
decade nor

do I intend
to
for
the

foreseeable
future. I


admit my
major
faults:

I am
somewhat
"clingy"


and need
constant



reaffirmations of
friendship

and

love, I adore cuteness




above hotness, I have
simple



tastes and
desire other
people


with
the same, I
love



cuddling and expect
my

significant

other to
as well, I

can be


rather
obstinate
and
insistent
on

some
things, and I am a



spendthrift. Thus, since I am an imperfect person, I do not expect my significant other to be perfect. I fully expect there will be differences in how we act, and I am prepared to compromise accordingly.

My accomplishments? Umm . . .




I don't talk about




accomplishments, and I
don't

brag.
I
feel
that your


accomplishments

are
your own
business

and mine

are my
own. It

should be

obvious
from
my essay

that I am


someone who lives

a moral
life

by helping

others.
Indeed,
I
am
most proud

of the
numerous

times
I
have seen
people
hurt

or lost
and
have

stepped in to

assist.


However, I do NOT
boast -
I


usually will not even




talk about these times - I
feel



that I gain pride
and



self-respect for

assisting and
that

is
enough for
me. I

do not
mind if my


significant

other likes
to brag -


but I
demand
at the least
he

respect my

desire
to keep
my



accomplishments for my
own

pride,

self-esteem,
and

feeling
of
self-worth
alone.
I

will say my



accomplishments
do not include
any


instances
of harming


people.
Of
course I have


hurt some
people
in
life

either


unintentionally or

impulsively (as
I'm

sure

everybody alive
has).


However,
I do
not consider
such



times
accomplishments in any



sense of the
word and as


such will

willingly
share
these
times

with
my
significant
other
in

the hope that

through

discussion
we can
keep

our
relationship

pleasant

and
harmonious.
Also,


as I said
in my essay, I
do


not hold
grudges -
thus,

I
have never


intentionally
hurt
somebody

other
than
impulsively.

By


impulsively I
mean I had


just
gotten
snubbed blatantly


in the

face and was
reeling


with
hurt and pain.

Somebody who is cute (NOT hot), nice, friendly, kind, and opposed to sex before a firm monogonous relationship has been established. As for traits I find attractive, I can suggest honesty, gentleness, a love of cuddling and non-sexual touching, openness (but not until we've been dating for a couple of months), and tolerance. Of course, I do not display every one of the above traits at all times nor do I expect my significant other to as well. However, I will say that some things that are attractive to apparently a large majority of human beings (gay/ straight/male/f em al e) are extremely unattractive to me: machoness, muscular builds (e.g. Arnold Swarzenegger), putting sex before love, aggressiveness, an overwhelming desire to fit in with the crowd, expensive jewelry and body-spanning tattoos, etc. Do not ask me for one-night stands - while I have nothing against people who want to be "players", I have an intense dislike of such a lifestyle and expect my significant other to as well. I am no hypocrite: this goes both ways as I am sure to demand of myself to be equally as committed to him as I expect him to be to me.