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Love is a wonderful outcome but no place to start. Finding someone who is willing to have a good time, quiet or not so quiet, and be pleasing and wanting to be pleased is where it should start. Talking and sharing ideas, thoughts and feelings - intellectual and emotional is where I feel best starting. If you are interested in such a symbiosis, as time and opportunity can be created or discovered then let's talk it over. Scheduling should not be so important as to stand in the way of enjoying life or entering into a meaningful relationship. If the technology gives us the time to find each other let's use it to move forward and find time to get to know one another. I am always interested in getting to know interesting people and making new friends. If the minds meet and we can talk openly let's enjoy the exchange. There is more to life than love. As comforting as love is there are two questions I seek to answer: Once you find love what are you going to do with it? and, What do you do when you find out love is not enough? If you are interested in these ideas and want to start a conversation I am interested in hearing from you. Thanks and good luck in you search, wherever it leads you - I hope you find what you need, even if it doesn't appear to be what you think you want.
I enjoyed the benefits of a magnificent education. I entered a profession and worked at in for decades and did a lot of good and made a substantial amount of money. I raised two boys with love and plenty of mistakes and endured a cold, emotionally immature mate for the sake of having the opportunity to bring up my boys with love and understanding to become the sensitive and loving men they are becoming. I have paid for the privilege of procreating myself and my superiors or the next generation. I would like a bit of consideration, kindness, understanding and stimulation of all kinds, intellectual, emotional and physical for the remainder of my time on this earth. I would also like to extend consideration, kindness, understanding and stimulation to those who I encounter along the remainder of my journey and to share with them my thoughts, ideas, observations and feelings. I still have a great deal of work to do and many trials to overcome and survive and am not yet done paying for the privilege of procreation and won't be until my children are fully grown, educated and over the emotional trauma and financial issues of the last few years. But I carry my baggage proudly and will discard it when the duties I assumed when they were born is complete, or through the current phase. This is where I am from, who I am and where I think and feel I want to sojourn. If you think you might want to journey with me for a time or share the road with me then I suggest you write.
I would like to meet people who are secure in their intellectual, emotional and physical selves. Not that they are super models or rocket scientists but don't have a problem with who they are, what they look like and are comfortable and get along with themselves. I am not perfect but I work on those aspects of myself that I would like to change and improve but I am not insecure in who I am, what I have done and my physical self. I want to be accepted and enjoyed for who and what I am, can that be improved - yes, of course. And I should work on it more often than I do. But I offer myself as I am both as I am today and as a work in progress, comments welcome, recommendations and encouragement also welcome. I would like to meet people who are equally comfortable with themselves both clothed and naked, emotionally, intellectually and physically. Does that make any sense? I don't know those I have yet to meet but if they are prepared to share who and what they are as well as what they are becoming I welcome their friendship and offer my own. I have been married, have two wonderful sons and am glad of it. I do not want to re-create a family - been there, done that - but am interested in putting together then next phase, different - better - not the same as before. Those who seek happiness and accept it as it comes without requiring it to fit into a particular package are welcome. Open the door to the gift horse when it knocks, don't ask it too many questions until after you invite it in to sit down and have some coffee or tea - it may get bored and walk away. Care for yourself, care for each other and if you understand that and are ready to be understood, to understand, to care and be cared for and to accept happiness - then please write, you and I both will profit from the investment in a little open communication.
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Chris5553
59-year-old man in Frankfort, NY
Looking for girls
37 to 54, up to 100 miles from me
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5’11”
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Extra-large
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Mostly gray
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White / Caucasian
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A little below average
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Graduate degree
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Not specified
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$75,000
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English
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Catholic
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Divorced
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Yes, living at home
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No
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Never
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Moderately
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential
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Women 37 to 54-year-old
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Within 100 miles of Frankfort
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5’0” to 5’10”
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Average, A Few Extra Pounds, Large
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Auburn / Red, Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Dark Brown, Light Brown, Mostly Gray
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Asian, Latin / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
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Bachelors/4-Year Degree
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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English
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Any
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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No
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Never
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Doesn't Matter
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