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Country gal looking for country man
I have climbed a lot of mountains in my life even though they are physical and emotional ones they were high. I am a fighter - I have had to be or I would be dead by now. But I am also compassionate, caring, and giving often to a fault. I enjoy people although there are times when I enjoy solitude also. I can find beauty in many things that others think is nothing but an eye sore. When I really let my mind wonder and my inner self really come out it is almost like I can hear the voices of those who have lived many years ago. I suppose this may sound strange to a lot of people who have never allowed themselves to reach out to the past like this. History is something that I love as well as the life stories of real people. I think that everyone has a story if only they would take the time to share it with others. I love writing and have been told that I have a gift with words. I plan on making the time to sit down and do some serious writing in the near future. Thus far except for a brief 9 months real love has eluded me. That love was terminated by the death of my loved one. Even if I could I would not change those months that we had together. He often told me he had never been happier in his life. I am not perfect by any means but would like a chance to show someone special that I can be loyal, loving, and sensitive to his needs and desires. Just as long as he is a gentleman and does not believe in physical violence. I have lived through that and will not go there again for anyone. Life is just too short to live like that. Fear is not something that overtakes me, perhaps it is because I am not smart enough to be afraid, or perhaps it is because I have been through so much that nothing scares me anymore. To be honest I have some disabilities but I am not one who just gives in to them or sits around feeling sorry for myself. Yes there are times when I wish that I could be just a normal person. But I realize that ther
I have overcome many obsticles in my life. The latest is one I am still fighting to get over which was being hit by a drunk driver this last Easter Sunday. When I believe in something I believe with all my heart and don't mind getting on the old soap box to proclaim what I think. I find it easy to talk to people and find most people interesting. I have went with friends to the VA Clinics and usually end up with several around me talking. I care about others but not about what they say about me. I guess living in a small town all my life has taken that out of me since there is always someone out there ready to make a mountain out of a mole hill. As long as I know the truth and God knows the truth then I could care less what is said about me. Besides if someone is talking about me then just perhaps they are giving someone else a rest. If you want to know more then just ask.
My ideal soul mate would be someone who walks beside me.. not in front or behind me. He would be an equal in all ways.. supportive.. loving.. wouldn't mind holding hands in public or other public displays of affection.. I am not looking for someone perfect as the only man who ever walked this earth who was perfect ended up on a cross. I am not looking for a knight in shining armour. Just someone who would be there for me, know that a woman sometimes just needs to be held, and there are times that she needs to cry. Someone who would be willing to laugh with me and cry with me. A sense of humour is a must to be around me. I want someone to just grow old with and who would never doubt my love for him.
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gumdrop51
58-year-old woman in Bokchito, OK
Looking for guys
50 to 65, up to 10000 miles from me
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5’6”
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A few extra pounds
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Dark brown
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Native American, White / Caucasian
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Needing improvement
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High school
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Not specified
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Unspecified
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English
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Protestant
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Never married
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Yes, living at home sometimes
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No
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Never
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Do not drink
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Men 50 to 65-year-old
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Within 10000 miles of Bokchito
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5’6” to 8’0”
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Any
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Any
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East Indian, Latin / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
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Doesn't Matter
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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English
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Catholic, Christian - Other, Protestant
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Never Married, Divorced, Widowed
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Doesn't Matter
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No
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Never, Smoke Socially, Former Smoker
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Rarely, Occasionally, Moderately
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