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Believe In Forever And A Day
Hello, Isn't this a great way to meet people. I thought maybe we should all just wear "I'm single and looking,ASK ME." buttons at Walmart to help identify ourselves as we were shopping for bread and a garden hose but guess that might not work either. From the number of ad's listed on this and many other sites for Ft. Smith it sure looks like there are alot of lonely single people out there so maybe this isn't such a bad way to start things.I'll get the pertinent stuff out of the way, married 19 years, 3 grown children ages 24-25-26. One absolutely adorable 4 month old grandson. Divorced 12 years with two long term relationships thrown in there. I work full time and own my own house or at least I and the bank do for the next 20 years. I believe in commitment to one relationship, never understood how some women could date 3-4 men at the same time and claim to care deeply for them all. I believe getting to know someone is a process that takes time, we all want to be liked and accepted so sometimes you say what you think the other person wants or needs to hear. Unfortunately I speak my mind, so that sometimes gets me into trouble if you have different expectations. I enjoy finding the humour in life and want someone that can make me laugh. I was raised as a Kansas farm girl so enjoy gardening and being outdoors. My Grandpa taught me to fish when I was 4, goodness that was a long time ago but I still remember how. Funny I may forget where I put my car keys but not the sense of excitement and expectations when reeling in a fish. I'm truly just looking for a friend, a companion, a lover, a helpmate to spend time with and enjoy living. If you'd like to see if we have things in common write and we'll explore possibilities.
I'm a mom with grown children. Son age 25, Son age 24, Daughter age 23 A new grandma. Grandson born Feb. 2, he's stolen my heart but there's still some to share I'm a nurse and work with a preschool program serving two counties in AR I'm a daughter: Parents both living I'm a sister: Oldest child with 1 brother and 2 sisters I'm an Aunt: 7 Neices and Nephew who have all started having kids of their own I'm a Friend: I have a few very close friends but have also stayed friends with many of my ex's. I've only been married once for 19 years and had two long term relationships since my divorce 12 years ago.
I'm looking for a man that doesn't mind scratching my back if it itches. Who is as comfortable coming up behind me for a hug at the kitchen sink as he is sneaking a kiss in the middle of a slow dance on the dance floor. I want someone who will put our relationship ahead of everything else in his life, secure in knowing I'm there to support him, his career, his goals, his ambitions. I want a man that can accept that I love him and not expect me to stop loving my grown kids, grandson, parents, siblings as part of that commitment. I want to share them and my life totally, not just exclude them and focus on him. Looks don't mean much to me because I've been very heavy and very thin and now I'm working on being very healthy. Acceptance for who you are not what you look like is a plus.
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Oklahma_Lady
55-year-old woman in Roland, OK
Looking for guys
45 to 58, up to 50 miles from me
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5’4”
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Large
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Dark brown
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White / Caucasian
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Average
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Associate/2-year degree
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Healthcare worker
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$35,000
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English
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Spiritual, but not religious
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Divorced
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Yes, not living at home
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No
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Never
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Occasionally
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Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential, Long-term Only
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Men 45 to 58-year-old
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Within 50 miles of Roland
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5’0” to 6’0”
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Any
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Any
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White / Caucasian
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Some College
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Any
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$35,000
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English
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Any
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Any
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Doesn't Matter
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No
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Never, Former Smoker
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Rarely, Occasionally
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