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About Me

Here's the basics: 36yo, 5'9", 180, greying brown hair, blue eyes, hairy chest (it's slowly greying too).  I'm not as fit as I used to be, but no schlub. I'm viciously loyal.  I've often been told that I'm the guy that always 'shows up.'  I've got a very dry and sarcastic sense of humor and believe there is a joke in even the worst of situations.  I know myself.  I'm a TV junkie and the inventor of the TIVO is my hero. I've got 2 ex boyfriends, select close friends, many friends and a zillion acquaintances.  I'm very close to my immediate family and closer to my extended family (see 'select close friends' above).  I'm a jeans and t-shirts kind of guy, but I look great in a pressed shirt and tie. I prefer a night in front of the TV to a night at a bar. I'm not a 'glass half empty'-guy at all, but my humor leans towards the cynical.  I am a firm realist and very logical.

I'm a student again. I was in the dropout class of 1991 and spent 15 years as a dancer/singer/actor in New York. I've been on Broadway once, 3 national tours, 20+ regional productions, 2 TV episodes and 1 film. I'm currently a 2nd semester junior (that's so weird to type) at OCU working towards a BS in Entertainment Business and I have no earthly idea how I got through homework without the internet. I've got a job that I love. I've jumped out of an airplane (on purpose) and I've flown on a trapeeze. I've produced theatre.  I've been a customer service representative for a toy company (I started the day after Christmas - I don't recommend it) and for two years I was the fitness manager for Equinox Gym in NYC.

Who I'd Like To Meet

I firmly believe that everyone is a little messed up.  Some more than others (see '2 ex-boyfriends' above).  The trick is to find the person whose messed up-ed-ness compliments your own. I'm aware of my good points as well as my faults and you should be too. You should be smart, funny, and fit and don't take yourself too seriously.  I'm not one to judge, but please be done with any weekly drinking binges, three-ways, groups, drugs or whatever you were into.  If you need to be intoxicated to have a good time, we're likely not a match. Please have a pliable sense of social decorum and you should be presentable enough to meet my friends. 

Transformers, all Die Hards, Casino Royale Dragonware, 1st Edition Baum and Thompson novels
Auntie Mame Jazz
Super Size Me 80's
Memento, Notes on a Scandal, LA Confidential Meatloaf, Queen, Styx, Classic Rock
Singin' in the Rain - best musical ever. Showtunes/Broadway
Barefoot in The Park, Most Neil Simon, The Women Patterson, both Kellermans, David Sedaris, Gregory Maguire,
The Comedians, Take Me Out, The Louvre, The Smithsonian, l'Orangerie
Most Sondheim, Most Herman, Urinetown, Ragtime Blues, Greens and Browns...and my Red couch
the Mediterranean Monopoly, Pictionary
Anywhere between San Francisco and Vancouver Poker (novice), gin rummy (with my grandmother)
I'd love to go back to France to explore beyond Paris I rock at Password.
I make a (expletive) pot roast ONCE I completed the Tuesday NYT crossword IN PEN!
Still haven't found a fave in OKC. Painting, upholastery, HGTV stuff
Most anything in moderation, I'm a boring drunk. BC/EFA

Are We Compatible?

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MatthewOKC

40-year-old man in Oklahoma City, OK
Looking for guys 32 to 42, up to 20 miles from me



  • 5’9”
  • Average
  • Light brown
  • White / Caucasian
  • Very attractive
  • Some college
  • Other
  • Unspecified
  • English
  • Jewish
  • Never married
  • No
  • Undecided
  • Never
  • Rarely
  • Dating Only, Dating / Long-term Potential
  • Men 32 to 42-year-old
  • Within 20 miles of Oklahoma City
  • 5’6” to 6’6”
  • Athletic, Average, Muscular, A Few Extra Pounds
  • Any
  • Latin / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian
  • Doesn't Matter
  • Any
  • $75,000
  • English
  • Any
  • Any
  • Doesn't Matter
  • Yes, Undecided
  • Never, Smoke Socially
  • Never, Rarely, Occasionally

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Mr_excited_one... , 38 1:32 PM on Nov, 08 2009
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very informative, impressive, and genuine profile essay

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