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I'm 53 years old, 5'11", slim
muscular build, well educated,
independent, articulate, a really
good cook and am told I have a

wit (not nasty) and a sense
of humor. I own my own home in
the country in Berks County,
PA -- a small 4 acre farmette

--and run my own business
(very small -- I'm the only
employee) from my home with three
cats as my companions. I'm a

rabid gardener and work hard
on home improvement.

I
have strong southern roots -- my
mother was born and raised in
Georgia -- a true southern
belle -- but she married a Yankee
of French extraction (my
father) and they spent their adult
lives in this area. She
raised me to be a southern
gentleman. Both of my parents are
deceased, as well as my eldest
sister. I have one sister left
who lives in the area. She
has two grown children who

have been particular lights in
my life -- I made it a point of
being very active in their
growing up.

The years before
50 were spent working to
achieve my life. In the years
following 50 I have been focusing
more on receiving my life.


I haven't actively been
looking for someone to share my
life with but look at ads on the
internet and respond --

rarely -- to those that intrigue
me.

Sex: I love sex. I'm
sexually active and sexual
compatibility is critical and is
something you know instantly.
In the bedroom I like long
sessions of body contact and
exploration, marathon making out,
and all the other stuff that
happens between two men when

they're making love.

I have had many careers --

could be a short attention span

but I like to think of it
more
as a lot of varied
interests
-- that have included
being a
costume designer,
freelancing
all over the
country, a mental
health clinician
and
administrator,
university
administrator, an
antiques dealer, and now
in my
present and most long
term
incarnation as a fund
raising
consultant for nonprofit

organizations.

So, what am I looking for? Someone I can be with on equal ground -- I take care of him in all aspects and he takes care of me; have fun; share intimacy on all levels -- emotional, spiritual and physical; share my life -- I have a wonderful and beautiful life. I don't know if I necessarily want to live with someone -- I really like my privacy and calling the shots in my environment, but that could change with the right person. Someone who shares the same values and to whom the same things are important -- family, friends, traditions on holidays, romance -- and yes I'm a Democrat. Someone who appreciates me and is genuinely interested in what I do, think and feel. I haven't had a long term relationship but have had relationships -- I just haven't found the right man and I haven't been found by him, as of yet.