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I have recently been working to be healthy. My father passed away at 50 on Sept 1 2005. He did not take care of himself and ultimately it led to his death. I was very much like my father in both my eating habits and my lack of exercise. I swore the day i signed the paper to disconnect life support that THAT would not be me in 25 years!!! I made a vow that day that by the 5th anniversary of his death I would be healthy! Fast forward 5 years (almost). I have lost approximately 50 lbs. since Feb. I know jog, walk, run, between 3 and 6 miles a day. I have fallen in LOVE with Pilates!!! It is shaping and toning me as i lose weight. And after every workout i feel AWESOME!!!

I have a great sense of humor and love to make people laugh. I am very sarcastic and that is usually where the jokes come from however that same sarcasm can be one form of honesty, its my nice way of saying you bein a dumbass stop and think about what you are doin. However, more generally i just come right out and say it. I dont pull punches because i firmly believe that if i say the exact thing on my mind, good or bad, and pull no punches then you will come to believe that what i say i mean once again good or bad.

And as far as falling in love gentlemen, that is not something i can do easy because i dont really understand the romantic kind of love. Of course I love my Family and my Good friends, but the love and devotion to give one person that much power is dangerous to me. I want to fall in love, but the logical side of me has long kept that from me. It will be a hard road but I WANT LOVE and i believe its my turn.

By the way I can be a bit long winded

I dont brag

You have to be funny and not dumbass funny but smart, witty kind of funny. This is really the key to me for as much as i love to make people laugh i love laughing just as much! And remember, like the wicked wasp of twickenham, Alexander Pope in case that was vague was a ref, my tongue has a bit of an edge so a fair amount of patience would be in order. I dont always mean things the way the come out and i can say things wrong all the time so please be patient but do tell me when i am bein a jackass! And while I am looking for depth now i have not forgot about sex. To me, sex is a large part of a relationship and should be focused on as much as any other aspect. I like sex to be a journey of learnin this foreign terrain, learning every peak and valley but i do not want it to be the overiding factor. Because it insights so much passion it can overpower good thinking and ruin that which it may have benefited.