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my real name is jamela :) that's jay-muh-luh... i've been mispronounced all my life! the worst slaughtering of my name came in highschool in driver's ed- the teacher called me jamaal all year long... i sat in the back.i'm into intelligence and personality. i am an artist and a musician, and i get along best with like-minded people. i love a good book, going folk-contra dancing, and being outside. every now and then, in a social situation, i sneak into being the "social butterfly" but i mostly focus on a small group or individual. i'm kind of loner, but i adore my family and friends. i go to church, and i seek God's Hand to move in my life. i was actually raised as a preacher's kid, but that never isolated me from relationships or the world. i am divorced, due to the fact that my husband hit me. just once, that's all it took. he was a mistake. i simply wasn't being true to myself. i have learned a lot in my twenty years of life, and have experiences that most young women my age do not have, but thanks be to God, i am stronger and more capable for that. i love deeply, but i also tend to leave quickly. i'm stable, but not always. i'm creative, but sometimes laziness gets the best of my potential. i'm sweet, but i can be selfish. i think realizing both our strengths and weaknesses is an important part of a true relationship.

i am an improvisational musician, focusing mostly on the piano and songwriting. i play for people and for God. i play for catharsis and enjoyment. i am also an artist, and i hope to attend converse college in spartanburg this coming fall to study art therapy.

a fun-loving, common sense-possessing and respectable individual. someone i can talk with, enjoy time with, and learn from. someone who seeks not only the thrills in life, but the important things as well, such as friendships and making the most of our time here. someone pretty, but not self-absorbed. someone who has lived a little, who has a warm personality, who enjoys being random and carefree.