What makes me, me? Well, for starters, I have been serially single my whole adult life. I've played here and there, but after one or two encounters, I get bored with the man. In all honesty, I'm ready to settle, but I want to settle more or less on my own terms, not on someone else's terms. I like compromise in a relationship and I don't always like being the one to make the decisions. I have enough of that in my work and school life.
Well, I am currently in university completing my BSBA degree in MGMT. I spent 5 years in the Navy; stationed primarily in Spain. I was a French, Arabic, and Spanish interpreter. After getting out, I was hired on as a translator in the Middle East, where I worked for 5 years, having just returned home this past November. In the interim, I completed my AABA degree in Business Adminstration and am now going for the rest. I am the first college grad in my family, and was the first one to graduate high school. No, my family isn't stupid, we were just poor. Things have improved greatly.
The man for me should be intelligent and self-sufficient. I will not play the role of anyone's mother. My man should recognize that I am independent and self-sufficient as well, and have a hard time asking for help. I am not weak, just stubborn :). I need my man to understand that I've been in the world making it on my own and will continue to do just that, partnered or not. I don't mean to sound like I don't need a man. Truth be told, I do because I have come to realize the importance of a counter-balance for me. To invoke the words of Ne-Yo, I'm a movement by myself, but a force when we're together.
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