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I am an idealist, and an optimist. I believe I can accomplish whatever I desire to accomplish in this world.

I am extremely honest, maybe to a fault. Some people are afraid of my level of honesty. I am opinionated, and if you ask me my opinion, I will give it to you straight. I do NOT dance around issues, and believe honest communication is intensely important in a relationship. Hand in hand with this honesty is trust; I am honest, so I expect (at least, hope) that others are honest. I trust easily, because I hope to be trusted.

I do not do things I will regret, nor do I hold off on doing things that I will regret later having held off on.

It makes me sad when anyone is in any kind of pain.

I am not the most 'exciting' person, and don't agree with some modern definitions of 'fun,' which oftentimes means partaking in some activity that is demeaning to someone or degrading to personal health. I am happy to learn about and be close to someone, instead of running around, filling my day with activity after activity. I long to find a soulmate, not someone to be entertained by and to entertain; though, of course, that doesn't mean to say I don't like to go places and do new things. Being with someone I love is most important to me; everything else comes second to that, excepting my (and a partner's) physical health/survival.

I have made the conscious decision to ignore many social cues, as they cause communication mix-ups and tons of trouble. For this reason, people have to be extremely forthright with me, telling me blatantly what they think and feel. This doesn't hurt me, it helps me understand others' needs and improve myself.

I spend much of my time in thought, and am an artist.

I want someone who I can love, who accepts my differences, is honest, and will work through issues with me. Someone who wants more than a fling, or just to date- I need someone who is looking for a long-term, meaningful and deeply intimate and satisfying relationship. Oh, and common sense is rather important, as well. At my age, however, it's been extremely difficult to find anyone who fits this description at all. Physical appearance... well, I would prefer someone my height or shorter, but that is not easy to find, seeing that I'm 5'4 myself. I would also prefer someone who is on the more slender side. However, physical appearance is nowhere near as important as inner beauty. I abhor alcohol. I absolutely abhor it. I don't like that people slowly kill themselves with substances that they think will make them happy. Loving another person honestly and completely is thousands of times more amazing than any addictive substance. I hope any partner wants to keep themselves healthy and happy. It would make me incredibly unhappy to be with someone who sedates themselves out of reality because they don't want to deal with their problems.