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~Do not lead me into temptation because I found the way by myself~   Divorced mom of two fabulous kids that come first and foremost in my life, yes..blood is thicker then water! My kids are mulatto and if you have a hard time accepting them..you'll never get near me..I am not seeking a flavour of the week, and discretion is utmost...scruples here, my children do not need to be subjected to finding someone they haven't gotten to know in our home..especially first thing in the morning.... I am 44 years young, and love this age...it's fun, exciting, I'm wiser and better now then I was 20 years ago...so I dress and act appropriate to my age....I have no tolerance for the head games,  or lines that you feel no one else has heard...I am very self-sufficient, and am full time employed, college graduate with a BA in Criminal Justice. I have worked in corrections, child support and unemployment adjudication and currently in Adult Probation...and I love the law!!   I had someone ask me once, if it was harder to date as you grow older and are single...and my response was it's not harder, you're just more selective....yes intimacy is a very important part of life, but no it's not life-threatening if you go without sometimes...I do not pretend to be something I'm not..I am not a "Barbie," honestly can't put down ample or large...short and simply put...I'm a Big, Beautiful Woman...very active, well taken care of and love to pamper the hell out of myself....I have found it's those that are insecure within themselves that find it necessary to be critical and judgmental of a person's physical attributes rather then the inner beauty and personality of a person......so if a BBW is intimidating to you....move on.. I value my friends and family...and once a friendship is developed....it is for always... Understand, that not everyone here is going to have that "chemistry"

~~My children!! My son is 16 years old, interested in pursuing a law degree and taking the steps towards accomplishing this - works part time, plays trombone and electric guitar, has had 6 years of spanish and continuing.....and my daughter is going on 12...with aspirations of one day designing her own clothes line...among other things at this point...she was born premature at 2 pounds...with some medical problems....but one you'd never know unless I told you...~~ Graduated with a Bachelors in Criminal Justice and went on towards a Masters...with one year for completion...8 years straight through of college I reached a burnout stage...and one day I'd love to go back to finish this....I love the law...and have worked within corrections, child support enforcement, unemployment adjudication and currently in adult probation... I have traveled all over the United States...living in Wisconsin, Minnesota, Illinois, South Carolina, Alaska and now back in the fine state of Wisconsin..