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hoes get on my nerves. i want to be your companion, not your vagina.

First, let me start my making my intentions clear. I am not here looking for a quick hook-up, and if want a girl you can be cuddling with by the end of that day, thats not me. I am mainly looking for friends, and just good people to go out and do things with. So please, message me with the intent of friendship. i have been single since october 2nd of 2009. I've realize all the my relationship has been failures and ended in heartache cause i didnt take the time to get to know the exes as well as i should have before making a commitment. Had i done that, maybe i'd have seen it all coming and have good friends right now instead of exes that put a sour taste in my mouth and pain in my heart. Well, the down side to me is, youre going to have to put in some time and effort before you get to my heart, but the upside is, if things dont blossum, you'll at least have made a good reliable friend, i think another advantage to this approach, is i just took away the pressure between to two of us to be perfect for eachother, friends dont have to be so.
well, i suppose i will tell you a little about myself now. My name is Kayla i am 21 years old, i attend school the same hours as a highschool student, and i have a job. I will be a certified automotive technician by summer. I'm very passionate about automotives, and id like to open and run my own shop one day. With that said, i have no problem getting dirty, actually, i could even say i like it. I'm really outdoorsy, i have a tendancie to get stuck in the mud, and i love to just go site seeing, and hunt for new places, or hike or whatever, if its outside, i probably want to do it. I like to take good care of myself, and i stay concious of my weight. I'm also into art, i draw i paint i make crafty things, i dye my hair funky colors, i tye-dye, on the topic of tye-dyeing, i'm a really big hearted, loving hippie. I'm real laid back, i dont like to fight or argue, actually ill avoid i heated arguement at all costs. i respect

I fed and provided christmas for 3 families this year.
i have adopted 6 dogs from the pound and found them homes.
i have a black belt in shotokan karate.
i'll soon be a certified auto mechanic.
 i have straight As.
i completed one year of college is an a average b4 i found automotives.
i was the president of jr.civitan, we did amazing things for people all over the world.
i can roll my tongue.
i can snarl my nose.
i can pick things up with my toes.
i quit smoking cigarettes, after three years. (willpower baby!)
i changed 62 tires in one day by myself.
i can sing and play yankee doodle on the guitar.
i graduated high school.
i got the young writers award in 7th grade.
i got a trophy in 3rd grade for being generous.
i have no idea what else to put here, but ill work on more accomplishments to put here.

so here is where i should describe my soulmate..ok...well... First, he has to be my best friend, he must be will to get to know me for who i am, and like me for that reason. i want us to know eachother inside out before we make a commitment. A best friend is someone i can spend all my time with, i can confide in, i dont have to hide anything from, and can be myself 100%, and he still loves me anyway. And you most definately have to be there for me through any dilema that comes my way, and i will return all the same favors.  if i called you at 4 am, and needed you  to crawl out of bed and drive 3 hours to come get me off the side of the road cause my car broke down, would it be a privilege to you to be there for me or a burden to get out of bed?  Second, i definately need someone with a big big big heart, that enjoys helping others, ya know, the guy that cant leave the hungry puppy he ran into at the park, or the guy spending that bonus he got at work on some random family for christmas. he has the ability to feel other peoples pain, empathy i think is what its called? Ok, if i called you up, and said hey! lets go walk dogs at the pound, take toys to a needy child, take dinner to a homeless person and then we'll go catch a movie, would that sound like fun to you, or exhausting? Third, but just as important as the above if not more, i want someone honest...man, ive never had an honest relationship in my life, i cant think of a single person that has never lied to me, and it really breaks my heart. I'm not a bad person, you dont have to lie to me, if the truth is going to hurt me, please hurt me with the truth instead of devistating me with a lie. I'm honest, and i just want it in return. i need someone who will be straight up with me, sh*t happens man, just be honest, and i dont just mean honesty in your words, but also in your actions, which should come with having a big heart, cause youd think of the person your screwing over instead of