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What makes me me? Integrity, stubbornness, spirituality, wisdom, martial spirit, family, tradition-my culture. Hard knocks, hard lessons learned through a lot of pain. Love, compassion, Holy God, hope, my daughter,smiles,blessings.I think what makes me unique is my depth. I'm pretty open, and lots of folks think after a period that they know all there is in there, but there's more and more, if they would take the time and effort to keep looking. I come on strong, and lots of ladies are either put off by that, or think that it must be, "a line" or superficial, but it's just me. The sum of me is more than what I do, how much I make, or don't, how I look.

I feel that I am a "Renassonce man". I am accomplished in many things. I have been everything from a cowboy to laborer, a lobbiest to drug and alcohol counselor, a successful silver and goldsmith, a stone sculptorer, an accomplished martial artist, started Indian Centers, programs, handicapped articiasns guilds, a SunDancer in my culture, a warrior, 24 years straight and sober, a published poet and writer, a damn good Dad, a survivor, an Elder in my culture. I really don't like to talk in this manner, as I feel humble to be able to still be here period.

My ideal mate: I must admit, I am hypocritical in that while the fact is that I am somewhat overweight now, I'm not attracted to ladies that are substantially overweight. Sorry, that's just me. It would be better if a lady doesn't smoke, but I won't let that be a deterrent to me. A good body, a passion for whatever they do, including sex; a desire for me, and most of all, they are willing to accept me, with all my faults and stay for the long haul. I guess that I must be kind of hard to live with, because I haven't ever found a woman who finally decided she wanted me and would stay, no matter what. I'm not abusive, by the way. I want a woman who even if she doesn't love my kid, will accept the fact that I love her, and accept her too. A lady of pride and class, and yet can be very naughty with me. A lady who doesn't drink to excess, nor drink. I guess I want my cake and eat it too, but I deserve it! What's the point in having cake if not to eat it? Mutual respect and hope will make it in the long term.